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i just got a call from my best friend who was rushed to hospital last night. She was 28 weeks pregnant and suffered a miscarriage. She already has one beautiful daughter whose nearly 2 and a half, but this is her third miscarriage since having her. doctors have now told her that her womb is completely deystroyed and she cant have anymore children. Shes only 19! i cant imagine what shes going through!!! shes such an amazing mum and i know her and her OH always dreamed of lots of kids. Shes been so supportive of me to, and was so happy when we told her we were expecting. now i feel guilty she cant have anymore kids, and there i am, pregnant! i know i shouldnt feel like this, and i know she wouldnt want me to. just kinda hard right now! Why do bad things always happen to the best people??.
Oh how awful. I know its easier said than done but try not to feel guilty hun. Its awful for her but she's your best friend and will want you to be happy and I'm sure she won't want you to feel guilty.
I'm keeping you and your friend in my thoughts
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Oh how awful. I know its easier said than done but try not to feel guilty hun. Its awful for her but she's your best friend and will want you to be happy and I'm sure she won't want you to feel guilty.
I'm keeping you and your friend in my thoughts
Thank you!
I know hun, but i think its just because its all so fresh, that seemed to be my first reaction. probably because i didnt know how to react!
aawwww hunni it must be so hard for u and her she wnats what u got but that not a bad thing she can be involved in ur birth and pregance u cant feel guilty hunni u have done nothing wrong and neither has she maybe her woma will repair it self and later when she a little older she will be able to try again docs can be wrong u know
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i cant imagine what shes going through!!! shes such an amazing mum and i know her and her OH always dreamed of lots of kids. Shes been so supportive of me to, and was so happy when we told her we were expecting. now i feel guilty she cant have anymore kids, and there i am, pregnant! i know i shouldnt feel like this, and i know she wouldnt want me to. just kinda hard right now! Why do bad things always happen to the best people??. 
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