ladymilly

im so sorry, thinking of you both

turbo_mom

Im so sory I missed this yesterday.
It must be so tough for you right now I could not even imagine going through what you are. I think that I would be in shambles
I hope that he is OK. I don't really know what else to say except i'll be thinking of you and hoping that you are all ok. And although James might be sleeping he can still hear you so don't be afraid to talk to him and tell him you love him.
God Bless

anita665

I'm really sorry. Thats got to be one of my worst fears. I really hope he's ok. I'm sure he will pull through but I hope he does it quickly. Will be thinking of you.

nutty

I'm so sorry . Good vibes going to the three of you, hopefully he'll have a quick recovery

goldlion

Ellianna, I'm so sorry to hear that. Try to keep in good spirits! I'll keep the two of you in my thoughts

Ellianna

Thank you everyone.
We saw the consultant tonight, he's quite optimistic about how James is doing. He says the swelling in his head has gone down significantly, which is good; but we won't know if there's been any either temporary or permanent damage until he wakes up. They're quite worried about his pelvis because of where the fractures are, they said that it's quite likely they'll operate and put some pins in to keep it all together because of the amount of fractures he's got but they can't x-ray him properly at the moment because of the coma so again we have to wait until he's woken up. His elbows are completely shattered, they're going to have to put new joints in each one and he has hairline fractures up both his arms from where he was holding the steering wheel when they crashed.
I think the worst thing is the waiting; just not knowing what's going to happen. But I talked to him lots today and it did make me feel a bit better and the doctors said he might be able to hear me so I'm just hoping that he hangs in there for me and the baby.
The doctors are going to see how he is tomorrow evening and then maybe try and bring him out of the coma. If they do then they said I can stay there until Friday so I can be there if he wakes up in the night.
He's doing as well as he could be at the moment, he doesn't seem to be in any immediate danger as the broken ribs are still well away from his lungs so there's not a high chance of them puncturing his lungs. I guess we're just slowly realising the full extent of his injuries and hopefully on Friday when he's woken up we'll know more. I can't wait to talk to him properly, to tell him how much I love him.
Thanks for all your lovely messages, it really does mean a lot to me at the moment. It's great to come here after a hard day and see how kind supportive everyone is.
I'll keep you all updated
xx

xarlenex

Thats great the doctors have said hes doing as well as he can do at the moment! I hope when he wakes up and gets the x-ray all is well! Cant imagine how difficult it must be at the moment x

maddiwatts19

Awww hun!!. I know it might not seem like much, but even such little positive news is better than nothing!. He's still in my thoughts nd prayers, and will be.

He's just making you worried because he's a man, and is jealouse your getting all the attention for being pregnant!!! lol

Seriously hun, he'll get better, im sure hes a fighter, and he knows hes gunna have a little bub too look after!!!

lots of love
xxxxxxxx

Lauz_1601

so sorry to hear about your OH...will keep him in my prayers and wish for a quick recovery for him...hopefully wont be long hun and he will be giving you that hug! take care of yourself xxxx

toriaaaaTRASH

I can't believe I missed this thread. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I hope he's getting better! Good luck guys x