Last night I had a HUGE row with Bride-Effing-Zilla a.k.a my sister Carmen My step-bro Martin rang me to ask me was Raven a flowergirl at the wedding and I told him that no Raven was a Jr Bridesmaid and bump would be a flowergirl. So he told me that she hadn't mentioned our niece Esha-Leigh(his daughter) being in the wedding at all and Esha-Leigh was very upset about it.

So honestly thinking Bridezilla had overlooked it I rang her to find out what the story was. So when I asked her she said "No I didn't forget she was a flowergirl at your wedding". So I simply said that it wasn't very fair to leave her out when EVERY SINGLE OTHER NIECE & NEPHEW WERE IN THE BRIDAL PARTY!!! Then she said that she couldn't afford to have another Jr Bridesmaid cause then she'd have to have another Jr Groomsman and she already had 4 bridesmaids, 3 Jr Bridesmaids and 2 Flowergirls(which personally i think is way 2 much to begin with!!!) So i suggested she leave bump out of it and put Raven as flowergirl and esha-leigh as Jr Bridesmaid. Then she just LOST IT!!!! She started screaming that this was her wedding and everybody else could just F%£K OFF it was her wedding and she would do it her way and if anybody wasnt happy wit that they shouldnt bother coming to the wedding!!! So I hung up!!!

Then I rang martin back and told him what had happened and he told me they had a row 2 weeks ago because the original hotel for the reception cancelled due to a double booking and Bridezilla wanted Martin to host it at his hotel but he was booked up and there was absolutely nothing he could do he tried everything!!! So Bridezilla told him he wasn't invited to the wedding and they havent spoken since!!! So he presumes leaving Esha-Leigh out is her way of getting back at him. And I hate to say it but that is prob true cause she is sooooooooo immature and I am seriously considering not letting Raven and bump be in the wedding just so Esha-Leigh doesnt feel left out!!!

But this is the part that pissed me off the most..........
She then rang back which I presumed was to apologise boy was I wrong just to tell me she didn't appreciate me going behind her back to talk to Martin and just so we know neither Martin or me will be character references for her adoption. To which I replied "If your this immature that you are punishing your 8 year old niece over a silly argument with Martin maybe you shouldn't adopt cause your obivously not ready for kids" and then she said "Not ready for kids? stop being such a hypocrite bailey are u honestly telling me that when u wer apregnant 15 year old slut you were ready? Oh and look your gonna be a teen mom again are u proud of urself bailey? really are u? Proud that u didn't go to college? Proud that you had a baby at 16? proud of the fact that u broke moms heart when u got pregnant at 15? Does all the research not say that the adopted kids should be the troubeled ones? Now ur pregnant AGAIN at 18 God just can't keep ur legs closed can u?" So I hung up I expect this from other people who don't know me but from my own sister!!! It just felt like a slap in the face. I was upset when it happened but now i'm just annoyed I swear if she was her I would of killed her.

Ok Rant over if you got this far thank you for bothering to read it I just had to get it all out!!!

Love Bailey xoxoxoxoxox

I'm sorry. That was a really shitty thing for her to say to you. Sibling rivalry is the worst, ain't it?

I know weddings can be a little stressful but that was harsh. Hope you are ok. She had no right to say those those things to you. Talk about jealousy!

ok... my turn to rant...

the dog! i wouldn't be going to the wedding now! i am so glad i don't have a sister, i'd tell her to stick her wedding up her a** and watch her come running back to you with her tail between her legs. she has no right to say that to you. i bet your mother was a bit shocked but in no sense heart broken, i bet she loves her grandchildren, thats made me real angry reading this, i'd give her a piece of my mind! i started planning our wedding before i became pregnant and my mum started poking her nose into it! i told her i didn't want bridesmaids or flower girls because it causes arguements, plus the children won't remember as they are too young. the only thing left will be the photos, and there will be some teary child looking glum in the pics and chocolate stains down there dresses. lol the excuse was good enough for my mother to stand down and agree that a simple straight forward wedding is the best idea.
now me and rich are going for a wedding after the baby is born so he or she can be involved and no nieces or nefews. and i wont have a huge bump whilst walking down the isle. lol. x x x x

cheers x x x

oh my goodness, I can't believe she said that to you!

try not to take it to heart. she's probably under a lot of stress and didn't mean it. sometimes people can be so harsh...

i hope you're feeling okay! chin up, girlie, those things aren't true.

What a B*TCH . If my sister ever even THOUGHT something like that I'd knock her to mars

As you already know, she was way out of line. I am so sorry she said something so horrible.

Thanks girlies sorry for ranting just needed to get it off my chest xoxoxoxoxox

That was way out of line for her to say that, stressed or not.
Im sorry she said that to you

by the looks of it shes going to be there on her own lol, id kill my sister if she said that to me, you should send her a little message n get it straight that yes u are proud that you got pregnant at 15 and that you are pregnant now at 18 because everythn happens for a reason and you wouldnt have a gr8 family with 2 gr8 kids (well 1 on the way) if it hadnt have happened. and as for you breaking your mums heart thats between u and ur mum really isnt it but im sure that shes now got the same view that it happened for a reason and shes got 2 lovely grandchildren from it. i know i wouldnt have had the strength to have a baby at 15 so well done to you!xxx