mommy2raven

I am going to the wedding just because my mom would be devastated if me rae malakai n bump didn't turn up because she's been crying over martin tiffany and esha-leigh not going and I wouldn wana make her upset.

As for breaking her heart my mom said herself she was dissapointed when I got preg but I made a choice and I dealt with it and she is delighted I chose to keep the baby and I coped better than she expected and she wouldn change Rae for the world!!! I think Carmen is jelous because she is always the one who wanted 8 kids and to be a soccer mom and basically have a huge family but she was recently told she cant have kids and since then I think she resents me cause if truth be told I didnt want a baby at first cause I was scared but now I couldn live witout Rae!!! She doesnt think I deserve Raven because in the first tri I didnt want her which makes me a terrible person i know but I was 15 and didnt think I could cope arrrrggggghhhhh I swear Carmen can be such a bitch!!!!!

Ellianna

To be honest, it sounds like she's very jealous of you!
If she's adopting I'm guessing she can't have kids for some reason
(I might be wrong though!) and I can imagine that it must be quite
hard for her that you are blessed with two at a young age when
she has none.
Still, that is NO excuse for saying what she said to you, its just so mean! Ignore her, she's talking rubbish. I bet she'll call u saying sorry soon, I hope she does anyway!!

xx

reallytinyamy

OMG I can't believe that

For what its worth (probably not much as I'm a complete stranger!!) I've read a lot of your posts and you obviously love your little girl and have a great family unit. How many people twice your age can say that? The fact you're a younger mum is irrelevant, your love for your family is obvious

Ellianna

Just read ur post! Sorry SLOW reaction!
She is definitely jealous
As much as I feel sorry for her as I'm sure that is absolutely awful for her to go through, she shouldn't say anything like that to you.
She's only saying it because she's hurting herself
And you're not a terrible person for not wanting Raven at first, I felt like that when I first found out I was pregnant and I don't think I'm a terrible person!
I'm sure there's loads of people who think that at first, especially teens. But the important thing is that you did keep her and u evidently love her and seem like an excellent mum so don't be so harsh on yourself!
Ellianna
xx

beanie

Whilst she was in the wrong saying what she did, I can kinda see her point in that it is her wedding and it is upto her to have whoever she wants as bridesmaids.I wouldn't take too kindly to someone telling me who I should have and who I shouldn't but thats just me. She shouldn't have said what she did but then I don't think saying she wasn't ready to adopt was too nice either.

Anyhow hope you get it sorted either way, family rows are a nightmare

mommy2raven

No don't get me wrong I understand that its her wedding and I only said it wasn't fair I never told her she had to but i also dont think its fair to leave out one niece when the other 3 nieces and 1 nephew are bridesmaids/flowergirls/pageboy!!!

N I know I shouldn of said she wasnt ready to adopt i only said it cause I was angry and have emailed her apologizing for saying it

beanie

and hopefully she will get in touch and apologise too

Tilly

Awww, hope you can sort things out. Don't feel bad, you were only thinking of the little one and she was being unreasonable and very immature about it. We all say things we don't mean when we're angry.

Iwantone!!!

thats discusting to hear if from ur sister u could of been naty bk and said at least i can have my own kids no matter what age i had them but u did not and well done from not throwing it bk in her face she a total bitch and acting a spoilt brat its her lose and no dont ur parents will have something to say when they hear about this