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Old Dec 29th, 2007, 02:33 AM   #1
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ARRG. so my boyfriend is obviously out gettin drunk right now. and i call him and we fight about it. its all he seems to care about! he doesnt care about helping me out, taking some stress off me for the sake of our unborn child or anything. hes an ass! why am i with him? whats he really done for me then be a sperm donor!..

im sorry if i sound mean, its just that he doesnt even have a job, and im working 40plus hours a week tryin to make some money. well im sick of it, im sick of all of it. but i dont know how to get rid of him... i think id be better off alone.

im sorry, i just needed to let off some steam, it kinda helped
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Old Dec 29th, 2007, 02:37 AM   #2
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i cant really do much but sends hugs, if it helps to know, my OH is an arse as well!
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Old Dec 29th, 2007, 15:38 PM   #3
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aaawww hunni its must be hard (((((((((hugs))))))))))0
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Old Dec 30th, 2007, 09:27 AM   #4
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just an update. he just packed up his suitcase and left .. its 4:20 in the morning, im a wreck..
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You're probably better off without him
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Old Dec 30th, 2007, 18:48 PM   #7
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just an update. he just packed up his suitcase and left .. its 4:20 in the morning, im a wreck..
Silly man!

Blamed you for being mad at him? Nah wonder you are tbh esspecially the fact hes no job yet hes out pissing money up a wall!

Must have grabbed you hard though sweetie even if you were annoyed and wondering why you love him prior - that gave you a lot of confidence and security didn't it! Boy not man clearly.

I hope whatever comes next if it be calm or seperate ways its best for you and should he keep his bags away you will get through this. Please try to stay calm - how far along are you Gilly (I dont see a ticker)?
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Old Dec 31st, 2007, 17:28 PM   #8
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im 25 weeks, i just talked to his mother. (we're still pretty young) hes got a doctors appointment to go to detox and rehab, for alcoholism. its so stressful! i think im doing much better now tho, knowing that hes going to get the help he needs. thanks everyone
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Just wanted to send you a quick . I hope things get better for you. Hopefully he will get the help he needs and come to his senses. If not, your better off. I hope everything works out.
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Old Dec 31st, 2007, 22:18 PM   #10
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he needs to get clean to be a better OH and daddy u need to be strong and prove to urself that u can do it on ur own i no its hard huni we are here for u to rant xxx
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