okay, im sorry, but i have no one else to talk to!.. since i got pregnant (im 24 weeks) sex just isnt the same to me!.. i dont even like to be touched, or kissed. its all just a big turn off. its causing major stress between me and my bf, he keeps tryin, and really just doesnt understand. hes not being reasonable, or understanding, and im afraid hes going to look somewhere else for it. im scared, and i know its not him!!!! i love him to death, i just dont like the feeling of being touched, it makes me cringe right now. anyone else feel the same way, or is it really just me?

No I was the same.

We started off our pregnancy with no sex as its advised in first tri to avoid if you have a history of miscarriages so I kind of got use to that and by the second tri I really did not want it. I never got my head round these woman who crave it - maybe for us it was the fact we felt it was best because we did have sex in the second tri but it felt weird and left a worrying feeling for us. Your only cringing because you don't want it it doesn't mean anything as far as your love for your OH goes - he should support this - I don't know what hes said, done or how hes reacted for you to feel like this though. I was lucky my OH clearly wanted sex but he was supportive and gave me huggles before we would sleep. In the 3rd tri I wanted sex but felt so BIG and YAK that it didn't feel comfy for me then we started having sex to help things along and it was a little giggle dodging the bump etc

I wasn't allowed to have sex during the first tri because my cervix was weak. Now I'm too scared, not that I'm interested anyway. I'm the same, hugs, kisses, just don't want it. My OH doesn't understand but he's a spoilt brat. I don't know what to suggest, but you're not the only one

if he loves you he wont go looking anywhere else no matter what!!
but be sure to explain to him and give him love other ways. guys take rejection of sex as rejection of them. try and explain how you are feeling and even let him read about the hormone changes and morning sickness etc, i feel like DH understands much better because of that.

I was like that beforehand, to be honest Im not entirely sure how I managed to get pregnant, and it's certainly got no better since.

I feel your pain, Ive been like that for the past 2 years, I really hope it gets better for you, it's so frustrating!

xxx

I was like that before too.. my BF explains it as "he only gets it once a month" even though he had to get it more than that (or just perfect monthly timing) to get me preggy.

Now I am the same as before I got pregnant.. still dont care for it that often.

It also doesn't help that I am a morning person and he is a really really really really late at night when I'm tired person..

i feel the same, and i am only 9 weeks, and i get you dont love me anymore, which is not true, just feeling so tired, with morning sickness all day last thing i want.....

just explain that u feel really uncomforatble at the moment ur body is changing and u finding it hard to cope with the changes and deal with ur demands please just bare with me i do love u i hope it is more understanding xxxx

thanks girls, i thought i was all alone on this one, all i ever here about is how i should be all rowdy! but im not, maybe its cuz i dont like my new body in that way. i think i look cute and all, but not sexy! hopefully things get better! thanks for the help

I still feel the same now, I just don't feel like sex anymore