he still managed to break up with me AGAIN? I was dehydrated for 3 days so I had a migrane and I was flemmy and being sick so I stayed in bed and he had a go at me for neglecting him. I told him that when I'm like that it's impossible for me to make an effort and I'm better off without him bitching at me about it. His response to that was "if you're better off without me I'll go, then we'll both be happy." Both be happy? So he'd be happy without me? Charming right? Anyway I told him if that was what he wanted, I'm too tired to argue and he left..

He is acting like such a child!!!
I would tell him to f*** right off until he grows some balls and can start acting like a man

I'm starting to agree with people that I'm better off without him and I hate that.

unfair uncalled for comment

obviously knows your pregnnat you need tlc not him moaning HE isnt getting attention? wtf is that about!

charming thing for him to say ... what he means is fine ill take the easy way out & screw with your head a little. without knowing you thats what it looks like!

Sounds like he needs to grow up alot. He should be taking care of YOU not the other way around. Spoiled boy!

He definatly need to grow up. The world no longer revolves around him. What does he think it is going to be like when that baby is born?

tel him to grab his balls and act like a man not a boy and stop being so heatless ur preg u dont need stress at the mo tell him to bugger off if he cant act like a man xxx

At first I was stressing about it because I was so tired and so confused but now I'm O.K. If he wants to act like that then he can I'm not going to risk my babies health over it. He'll be back, and if he's not then it's his loss

Hello lovely

Sorry to hear about your situation. I can totally symphasize with you.

I am currently living at my parents whilst my OH sorts his head out. I left on Friday and am not sure what the future brings (scary thought).

I am trying not to make any plans just get through the day and look after myself and enjoy being with my family.

I hope your OH grows up and appreciates everything that he will be missing.

Good luck and Happy Christmas xx

just leave him be lovey, he obv has some issue with something, either that or he's being plain inconsiderate, he'll come back with his tail between his legs soon ... and when he does just say im dissapointed in you, i thought youd be a little more considerate, that'll make him feel worse than if you end up shouting lol