Tilly

I thought the same as I was posting it, making the person that makes you upset/jealous feel the same makes you as bad sometimes and he will probably want to keep going one better to hurt you.. or may make him realise he's being a prat.

You really need to sit down and chat calmly to him, as Jules said.. you're having a baby together - communicating will be more important than ever with the stress of a baby and lack of time to share doing the things you used to. If your OH can't take the heat in the kitchen, tell him to get out!

Sarah_16x

I rang him up again 2day on his break and guess wot he was in a girls car sum1 tht works there that hes always with......i was tryna tlk 2 him on the fone and i couldnt hear very well as the music was blasting i goes she knows ur on fone so why dont she turn it down he was lyk shut up....then i goes im not bein mardy or nefink but y are u always wid her in ur breaks, always get same time breaks as her, in her car....and he goes shut up... (wtf did i do rong i said im not being mardy which i was p***** off) then he goes bye in tht sarcastic voice again.....i was propa wound up.

VanWest

I think you need to get out of the situation your in and leave. He woun't change and if he's telling you to "shut up" etc it shows he doesnt respect you. If my husband ever treated me like that he knows I would rip him a new a$$#ole. Stand up for yourself. If you don't it just shows him he can run all over you. I say leave.

Tilly

Yep, he sounds like he has no respect and I think you're being nice by saying things like "im not being mardy" you should be being funny with him!! he sounds out of order.

mommy2raven

Yeah hunni u don't need that I'd say leave xoxoxoxoxox

Jules

Before i met my OH (we been together five years now) i was in "relationship" with this guy and i never knew where i was with him, he fortunately dumped me when i found out he had another girlfriend and i was devastated at the time as i thought i really loved him but looking back i realise that it was no relationship, he didn't respect me and the bad times outweighed the good. I felt physically drained all the time and realised how much hard work it actually was being in a relationship with him!

You seem to have a lot of problems with him and he doesn't treat you right.

If i was you i would go stay back with your family and leave him be for a while, see if he does any of the chasing then you will see if he really does care for you or not. Don't react to anything he does or says, you shouldn't be stressing yourself out xx

Sarah_16x

And today dident get any better he was at work later today he started at 1 i had to meet my mate at 10 at hers she lives like 20 mins away. I had no money so he goes il go shop and draw you some out anyways the cash machine wouldnt let him draw any out. He had about £4 in change he turned round to me and goes il have to get you your xmas prezzie next time i get paid which is (monday 31st).

And i goes what about my kitten because i have always wanted a kitten all my life and my mum and dad wouldnt let me have one and he goes well i got no money for one i wasent bovered i was joking around with him. He goes your ungrateful and chucked the money on the floor and walked off so i walked off the other way to meet meh mate and everyone was staring at me. He shouted go back and pick it up and i goes no and he goes well dont speak to me again your a d***. And he went and picked it up anyways i went to meet my mate and i got a text of him saying ring me now.

He was like ive been reading your chat logs i goes whats the point and he goes your a cheating b*****d. I goes why and he goes you have been aranging to meet other lads when we split up. I goes no i dident some lad asked me to meet him i said no but he kept asking so i said yes to shut him up i dident meet him which i never. Then he goes why did you tell basically everyone that we fell out and what happend on msn and i goes what am i surposed to do i was upset and i needed people to talk to and give me advice he goes w/e.

Then remember the 2 ppl i told you he emailed giving his mobile number out to i added them on msn to see who they was about a week ago. One was his ex and she lost her v to him and she lives 20 miles away. another one dunno how they know each other but she lives same area as me and him. Wouldnt you check out who your bf's been giving his number out to. anyways he goes your sad you are adding ppl off my contact list and all this.

Tilly

He sounds like a complete and utter prick! you sound as if you will be better off without him, seriously.

RachiePachie

Sounds like he needs a good slap to me and whilst you're at it knock him over the head to see if it knocks some sense in to him. The most important thing in his life right now is you and the baby - and tbh those girls may have been laughing but deep down they'll be thinking what an idiot he is to treat his woman like that.

Why are you with him? I'm sorry but I couldn't stay with any man who treated me like that!

babe2ooo

omg hun he sound like a twat, you really shouldny be with someone like that you need someone that will treat you right and love you like you need 2 be loved if i was you i would get rid, but if u love him, i know its hard but if hes not treating you right you need 2 get out