Hi there,

I'm after a little advice. Boyf tells me of about how relationships change when babies come and partners get snappy. I know his relationship was on the rocks when he had his boy but he says he seen others go through it too, people who are happy and are still together.
He seems to be prepared for this change and tells me that things do get back to normal.
I can't help worry though.
Things are very very comfortable between us at the moment and we are very much in love. I don't want that to change. I know I get ratty when tired, but I can't imagine us bickering, and I dont want us to.
What are your experiences of this? (those of you who have had a baby)
Is it that bad?

ur life wil be change dramactially as u have wil have a beautiful baby that u willl have to adjust ur lives around it will be the some amazing think that u will ever do in ur life ur cant plan for teh change it will just happen there n manual book telling u how ur realtionship will survive or not and how the strange of the new born will effect ur baby all u have to remember is why ur with each other and why u ahve had this baby and each night to tel each other that u love each other and have time with each other all the best x

Your lives will have a big change but doesn't have to be bad. Responsibility of a little person is mentally and physically demanding. Don't take each other for granted, teamwork where possible ( I fed baby , hubby then winded and did nappy) and enjoy!