Newt

No your not being petty at all.
I put Boyf through hell in the early stages and one wall needs replastering because of it hahaha!!!
I totally understand

charlottecco2

ha ha, i haven't got physically angry (yet)!!x

Iwantone!!!

heheh just set the rules if u chose to get drunk thats ur chose however u anit getting any SEX enjoy ur beer heheheh

charlottecco2

ha ha thanks for bringing a smile to my face, I will definately set the rules, xx

duejan19th

if he never promised to give up with u then it wouldnt be so bad but i think to promise someone something then go back on the word is not very nice, i dont drink and never have and OH doesnt really drink either so i cant say i know how u feel, but i gave up smoking when i found out i was pregnant which was and still is very hard and OH will still smoke in front of me which makes it really hard but i give up asking him not too. tell him how u feel and explain that u feel he has broken a promise and trust in his word and he may think again about drinking when u go out for the night x

Iwantone!!!

glad i made u smile hunni

charlottecco2

Thank you! I never even asked him to give up drink, we hardly ever used to drink so i never would have. However the fact that he promised and is now going back on his word is what annoyed me. xxx

justme00

Exactly. The fact that he is going back on his word gives you the right to be annoyed. Seriously he can still say goodbye to his friends without drinking!

Stef

Im going to be honest, (You did ask)

I think perhaps you are being a little irrational.

My OH said exactly the same thing, BUT I knew he wouldnt stick to it, again he isnt a big drinker. He very rarely gets to go out and have a drink he is always working...

When getting pregnant you are aware of the changes to your body etc and what you should and shouldnt do. Just beause we are pregnant dosent mean to say we ask them to start wearing bra's making them extra large with tissue, ask them to put cushions up their jumpers with bricks in so they start to complain about back ache and how difficult it is to move about... So why should we stop them having a friendly drink? Im sure if he wanted to eat liver you wouldnt stop him just because you are pregnant and you cannot have it?

I have attended leaving do's, my 21st birthday, OH birthday meal, Works Christmas Party and pretty much been the only one soba in which I really arent bothered. Does it really matter that much? At the end of the day you are then aware that you're not making a fool of yourself

Chris dosent pour lager down his neck that much that he is an embarrasment or gets that drunk he cannot remember what he is doing. If his friend was leaving to venture to another country i'd possibly be the first to say... Go and have a good time.

Whats the harm in your OH having a drink once in a while? Its not like he is sat at home getting mortel every day isit? Its 1 night!

anita665

I think thats a bit unfair of him if he'd said he'd stop drinking with you. I didn't even bother to ask my dp to stop drinking.

I have to admit I've had a few drinks since being pregnant but not very many and never more than 1 in a day. I always feel guilty after though so I haven't for a while now.

It's annoying going out and everyone is at least tipsy around you and you're still sober but it's also funny. I ALWAYS get into a bad argument with DP when we've been drinking and thought it was my fault because I get into that kind of mood & felt really guilty for always ruining nights out (or in) but recently discovered it's actually him who starts it. You can just make a list of all the bad stuff he does in your head and use it when the time is right, like getting your own way over the pram you want..... or maybe thats just me!