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Dec 8th, 2007, 22:25 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | partners that have changed
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anyone elses partner changed while they were pregnant/or are pregnant??
anyone partner not the want a baby, because you kept it, continues to you blame you for screwing them over?
partner, doesnt care? seems like their stuck in middle between unborn child and their partner?
but still thinks world of you, and still lets you know how much they still love you? am i being blind or stupid for stopping in this relationship?
I feel like im going out of my mind! i've had no support from my partner and constant blame i did the pregnancy on purpose, even though fell pregnant on the pill...
sorry for moaning, but need talk about it...
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Dec 9th, 2007, 00:45 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Sounds like you have a lot of thoughts running through your head right now.
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Dec 9th, 2007, 02:58 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | aawww hunni this must be so hard for u the stress of baby due to be brn and OH acting like a compelet twit to put it nicely i think hes scared and how his life will change but u wil not know how he will be affected compleltt to baby here all best hunni ((((((((hugs)))) were heere for u hunni |
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Dec 9th, 2007, 09:05 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Sounds like you both need to sit and talk to each other properly. Apart from that I have no real advice.
You did mention that he was due an operation in only a few weeks time. Perhaps the stress of it all is getting to him. I don't know, I'd sit and have a through civilised conversation with him. |
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Dec 9th, 2007, 09:52 AM
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Originally Posted by *BabyBean*  Sounds like you both need to sit and talk to each other properly. Apart from that I have no real advice.
You did mention that he was due an operation in only a few weeks time. Perhaps the stress of it all is getting to him. I don't know, I'd sit and have a through civilised conversation with him. | ohh the amount times ive attempted a conversation to him about it, can be hard get my point across when he thinks so strongly i made wrong choice, just wish would try think from another point of view.
but thanks for replies
i do feel better today 
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Dec 9th, 2007, 13:23 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Sorry to hear it Leanne. I really cant offer any more advice hun.
You just need to be strong for yourself and bubs  x |
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Dec 11th, 2007, 12:24 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Im sorry to hear that  I think sometimes mens heads go a bit funny when theyre stressed or worried or scared about something, and hopefully when he sees his child he'll change his attitude.
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Jan 25th, 2008, 15:32 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Hi ya,
Mine was like that and left me when I was pregnant for another girl but I wemt bsck to him to give it a go for the baby. The biggest mistake of my life as he is freat woth the baby and good with me now but I dont love him anymore and cant forgive him for all the urt he put me through during my pregnancy.I want to leave hm but im scared to as he is emotionally blackmailing me to stay.
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I sympathise..I'm pretty much in the same situation now Oliver is here...i wanna leave him i think.. Ewan has become selfish and he aint the man i fell in love with. i dont know what to do cus i feel like he is emotionally blackmailin me into stayin. I'm sorry to hear ur going through this..maybe things will get better, i hope so for urs and babies sake. goodluck hun.x |
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