But I can't do it anymore. I can't stay with him when he's so different to how he used to be. He started an argument with me earlier about something I didn't even do and then when I kicked off about it he told me I, yes ME, have to control MY moods. I replied to that with the obvious "I'M PREGNANT!!!" and what did I get back to that? "Deal with it."

hun you poor thing, you really don't need this being pregnant, i really don't know what to say, i just want to give you a big hug, and hopefully he grows up soon and reliaze he is going to be a dad.....

how old are u guys if u dont mind me asking he sounds like he needs to grow up a bit

see sorry but im gonna butt in an get my tuppences worth in, you say he is so different.... are you sure its not you?? and your just reacting differently cos ur preg? i know i physically hated my oh wen preg! and that aint an understatement! everything he did made me so mad!! an that was sleeping.. breathing and eating!!!

just dont want you doing summin ull regret.

I agree Yvanne. Chris makes me so mad some times. I even flipped at him last night for not holding the wrapping paper tight enough when i was traying to wrap presents etc. I get so irritated by him sometimes and its not even his fault bless him.

I cant begin to imagine how difficult I may be to him sometimes of late since i fell pg, he must think im something from the devil. LoL x

As Yvanne said. Dont make any rushed decsions and then begin to regret them. Pregnancy is a difficult time for both you and you're partner.

I think im going to edit this as not to piss off a pregnant lady. I feel a bit sorry for your boyfriend as you do seem quite highly strung (when posting here). I don't know if it's just the pregnancy, but I think you need to chill. Take a hot bath or try yoga.

Maybe it's you, not him..? or maybe im completely wrong, but in either case.. please don't get all defensive on me, just calm down and speak to him.

(Btw toria, I edited because I wrote it a bit harshly).

He's 23, 24 in January and he acts like a 4 year old. I tried explaining it to him, over and over again. But there's only so many times I can repeat myself. I wrote him a 4 page text last night and he ignored everything I said and text back with "I don't care about your stupid hormones, deal with them, everyone else has to."

sounds as though maybe the stress of the pregnancy is getting to him. like the ladies said, maybe you are taking it out on him? I know in my first tri, my poor DH got the bad end of my hormones for everything and I had to keep apologizing. Sounds like the two of you need to sit down and have a good, decent chat without stress or raising voices. Just genuinely tell eachother how you feel, don't point fingers. When relationships fail, there are two people to blame. Good luck. xx

p.s: enjoy your pregnancy. it's a beautiful thing. in many of your posts you seem upset, angry, or stressed out about something. enjoy it! this one won't happen again

We've tried to talk. Then he just brings stuff up again. I have tried..