elles28

I agree with Yvanne & the other posts....this should be the happiest time of your life...I had my 1st baby when I was 18 (10 years ago) & when I was pg I had a huge row (over nothing) with my OH & I packed a bag & walked out...I went to my mums when I told her what had happened she said grow up you have a new life inside you its time you started acting like an adult you are going to be a mother & you need to think about that baby before you think of yourself...It certainly gave me the kick up the ass I needed!! I really hope the two of you can work it out but if not you would be better doing it now so you can prepare yourself for meeting your beautiful wee baby.

Imi

I agree with babybean, you both need your heads bashing together!!

Hun your mum is always going to be your mum, but this man is going to be a father and TBH i bet he is terrified! I was about becoming a mother, but i braved it out and told NO ONE!

He is trying his best, but TBH talking in text isn't going to help as they can be mis-read and mis construde, you can take offence because a text has no emotion and can easily be taken the wrong way!

Hormones are a bitch when pregnant, my friends on here that actually know me in day to day life will tell you i was a compleate twat! Everything was Gav's fault.

Now he wasn't perfect but OMG if he breathed it annoyed me!

Take time out and have a proper chat, this baby your carrying is defencless and helpless, the decisions about whats gonna happen from here on in are going to affect not only you but bubs as well, a baby needs BOTH parents together or not!

Try and remember hormones, stress and worry are gonna put major strain on a relationship, but the outcome ......... so worth it

xxx

anita665

I can relate!! I just think that it's best not to over react for the babys sake because it needs a family and maybe it is hormones making me over sensitive.