horrorheart13

So far, all I've done on here is freak out about everything, maybe it's my hormones. I apologise in advance

I'm about 11 weeks now and ever since I found out I've been wondering what the hell I'm going to do. My OH and I have never gotten along that well. When we met we were madly in love but if I look back on the past two years all I can remember is heartache. I'm scared of bringing a baby into this situation and even if I leave him, I will have to see him because of the baby. There is so much more to this story but I will go on and on and no one will feel like reading it. I feel trapped and helpless.

On top of not being sure about wanting to be with him because of our bad relationship, he won't get a job and I haven't gotten one yet.

Linzi

I think only you can decide what to do hun.

Have you tried relationship councelling or something? I know a couple who went through that and theyre better than ever now. And they went through some bad stuff.

I dont really know what to say except that theres a lot of people here to support you and Im sure no one will get bored of reading your posts. Everyone here is just looking out for each other! Ive only been here a month but it is a lovely friendly place and everyonealways tries their best for you.

I hope everything works out well for you love.


xxx

jchaney85

You should try counseling but you need to do what you think will be right for the baby its out of your hands now have you talk to him about it?? Maybe thats what you two need is to talk about and throw everything on the table. I hope it all works out for you and please dont stress too much it will be bad for you baby. Good Luck

horrorheart13

Thank you both. I've thought about the counseling thing before and I should probably bring it up to him again now that I've found a few places offering such help. We're no good trying to talk things out on our own.