toriaaaaTRASH

I couldn't bring this up with OH before because I was worried he would do exactly what he just did. I simpley explained to him that I'm not 100% sure I'm ready to move out yet and he FLIPPED. He told me to bring it up on my own then if that's how I want to be and in the heat of the moment I said "I WILL!"

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Suz

Men can be such big babies when they dont get their ways. unfortunatly it doesnt even change as they get older...Im married to a 36 year old baby. Sorry you have to put up with him. Im sure when he cools off he will be ready to talk. Good Luck and I hope it all works out.

Jenny

I think he'll come around when he's done calming down. He was just upset and didn't think before saying what he said it sounds like. Give him a day or two and call him or see him. I wouldn't worry over what you said, since you were upset too and he should realize it. Things will be ok either way hon, hang in there

toriaaaaTRASH

I finally thought he was starting to understand me and then he just flies off the handle again ! I can't take it anymore he needs to sort it out. If he's not with me he's ringing me constantly. I just need some space. Maybe this wasn't such a bad thing.. Meh

Wobbles

You live with your parents?

Sorry I don't get it

toriaaaaTRASH

Yeah but he's here most the time. My mum thinks I'm gonna need her and I agree but he's gonna be at work all the time.. I don't want to feel alone

Tezzy

oh no sorry to hear that

Linzi

Well it might be best if you two get a bit of space for a while. At least you havent moved in together yet, it might have been a bit more stressful for you yet.

Hopefully he'll come round, but if he doesn't then Im confident you'll do a great job of bringing up your baby.

If you're comfortable staying with your mum then do it. Its your choice and he cant force you into anything you dont feel comfortable with.

Good luck honey, I hope it all works out for you and he grows up a bit!

xxx

Iwantone!!!

aaaww hunni hope u sott it out for allof u x

Imi

Having a baby is a big thing and people deal with the enormity of it in different ways.

Like you say though you said it in the heat of the moment? or did you?

If your not ready to move out and your parents are happy for you to stay then do so if thats what your comfortable doing, Having a LO is stressful enough and if you need to be at home and get your support from there, then do so!! he just needs to get a grip and sort himself out!!

Hope you feel better hun

xxx