poppy

Miss Maternal, you deserve so much better.

Your guy has a lot of growing up to do - trying to play his pregnant girlfriend off against a new woman, just to prove a point is not a good sign. Do you think he will change in the future? By then there is more at stake, a young child who will be relying on him for security and guidance.

If you don't mind me asking, how is your home situation? Do you have a strong support network there?

Big to you, I think you need it.

mickey

I can understand miss maternal, you must be very hurt!

I wish you the best of strenght

sophie

My mum always says go with your heart, shes akways said it to me ans shes one wise lady lol! I think if it was me i would have to give it another go even after everything ide want to at least say 'well i tried' but then thats just what ide do.
I cheated on Mark in the very begining, it was very different circumstances, and without tryin to make myself sound good i had to do it, i got back with my ex whom ide split from before Mark, it was all such a shock to me cos i didnt see it coming he just finished it, i got with Mark but my heart was still with James I got back with James to which made me realise i love Mark lol how confusing, anyway i was lucky and Mark took me back.
Anyway my mum told me to go with my heart to which i did and i ended up happier than ever!

My nan always says Love will find its way and in my case it did!
I hope u can be happy Miss M!
x

sorry for the ramble!
x

Wobbles

Oh my! I thought he was making effort hun! Thats not good in fact I think thats where my mind would have been made up as I posted that and 'realised'.

HUGS from me

Tilly

In your case id have to say I wouldn't give him another chance, it seems he doesn't respect you at all, and to go with another woman AND propose to her (if only to hurt you) is so wrong. but it's so easy to say that when it's not your relationship. Your dad may say to think with your head and not your heart, but thats more of a male way to see things, women are so much more hormone controlled.

I think you should always follow your heart, learn from your own mistakes.. do what you think is right, if it doesn't work out so be it.. but don't stop your babys father being a part of his/her life whatever you do.

Hope that helps a bit and good luck in whatever you decide.

miss maternal

I have a lot of friends and family and are welcome at my mums or dads where I have my stuff which I have organised there and changed address to my dads. The health visitor has been coming to my ex house where I have been staying. He is being nice and now bidding on things for the baby which shows an interest. I do love him but I can see what you mean Poppy as I feel it willl be imposible to get out but at least I would have given it a try. He needs me more than I need him and now he needs me more than ever. Going to meet his long lost brother and family for dinner for the first time today.

poppy

Best of luck to you hun! Try to relax throughout the rest of your pregnancy and enjoy your time with your new baby.

hypnorm

Your baby needs you more than ever!! you need to think about your self and your baby - That should be your upmost priority at this time.

I wish you all the best but this relationship sounds one sided, anyone can seem supportive by buying things but you need emotional support too not just financially.

I wish you and your baby all the best.

ElliesMum

There's no way on this earth that he would get another chance! I would just worry about looking after yourself and your baby. Good luck with whatever you decide.

Firsttimer

my bf cheated on me last year i forgave him i believed he learnt his lesson and will not do it again - but if he done it know while i was pregnant and i caught a STI i would go mad and not take him back noooooooo way......

Ive given my bf one chance as everyone deserves a chance to prove themselfs, but that would take it tooooooooo far for any chance to be given