Am I miscarrying?!?! PLEASE HELP! :(

momtobe.x0x · Feb 2nd, 2010, 18:08 PM

Hey Everyone!

I just joined yester and was very optimistic with this pregnancy than all of a sudden last night i had noticed some light bleeding when i eiped. It was light but bright red.

I decided to go to the ER as I had been experiencing minor cramps for the entire week that i had got it confirmed (jan.27) My blood test came back saying that it says im pregnant but he said barley. And my HCG levels were only 103. Which I know is VERY low.

I was brought into tears as this was my first pregnancy and i wanted this soo badly, I think its pretty safe to say that this pregnancy is over?

I am going to the doc in two days to see if my levels had changed, but i really doubt they will, i just have that feeling anyways.

No bleeding today, only a brown dischage.

PLEASE guys respond I need absoutley anyones thoughts on this!!!!!

shocker · Feb 2nd, 2010, 18:12 PM

how far along are you? If your 4 weeks along then those numbers are within the normal range, no-one here can tell you im afraid, your going to have to wait til the next test will keep fx for you and bean

momtobe.x0x · Feb 2nd, 2010, 18:15 PM

The thing is i dont know how far along i am now. I was told last week aprx. 4.5 weeks which would make me 5.5 weeks now. The doc said if that was true than my numbers should have been in the tens of thousands.

My last menstal period was December 25th, 2009/ I ovulated aprx. on Jan.8th and I do know that my partner and I were trying to conceive that entire week of ovulation.

shocker · Feb 2nd, 2010, 18:24 PM

nope! tens of thousands isnt accurate at all hun
http://www.pregnancyloss.info/hcg_levels.htm
and according to your date of conception you could be anywhere from 4 weeks to 5 weeks but no more than that, it sounds like your hcg is in the right bracket, try not to worry hun until you get your second test

BabyHaines · Feb 2nd, 2010, 18:27 PM

I'm unsure, but wanted to wish you luck xx

momtobe.x0x · Feb 2nd, 2010, 18:30 PM

that does give me some temperary relief. But the bleeding and cramping still realy concerns me.

Gizmo · Feb 2nd, 2010, 19:26 PM

Bleeding in the first trimester is quite common..... your HCG levels are ok for 4-5 weeks... The cramping is a concern but because you are so early that also can be quite normal.... ( I cramped untill 6 weeks) The only way of knowing for sure is having another blood draw and then seeing if the numbers double in 48-72 hours...... Its a good sign that the bleeding is brown and slowing.

www.betabase.info

This site has an online doubling calculator.
Hope the numbers go up for you

anita665 · Feb 3rd, 2010, 02:01 AM

I know its difficult but try to stay positive. Bleeding is really common in early pregnancy and not always a problem. I had bleeding too and my doctor told me that sure it can be a miscarriage but for more than half the women he see's, their pregnancy continues without further problems.

The cramping is also a very normal feeling. Lots of women will tell you it feels just like you're going to start your period at any moment but its just your belly growing to accomodate baby.

Good luck. x

momtobe.x0x · Feb 3rd, 2010, 13:15 PM

Well just as an update I am still bleeding and its no longer jsut when I wipe, It's not heavy...yet but it hasnt stop and the cramps come and go.

I really have come to the acception that I am in the middle of a miscarriage.
I will still go to the doctor tomorrow to get my HCG levels checked has it has been 48hrs just to see if they have dropped from 103.

I really am saddened by this, as I know I'm not the first one to experience a miscarriage, It's jsut that I really want to join "motherhood" so badly.

123davis · Feb 5th, 2010, 05:20 AM

try and keep your fingers crossed. i started bleeding at 5 and half weeks and still am i have been diagnosed with subchronic hematoma, thats why im bleeding not because im miscarrying, even though there is a chance that can happen still. hope things work out for u. good luck xx

Feb 2nd, 2010, 18:08 PM	#1
momtobe.x0x Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 17	Am I miscarrying?!?! PLEASE HELP! :( Hey Everyone! I just joined yester and was very optimistic with this pregnancy than all of a sudden last night i had noticed some light bleeding when i eiped. It was light but bright red. I decided to go to the ER as I had been experiencing minor cramps for the entire week that i had got it confirmed (jan.27) My blood test came back saying that it says im pregnant but he said barley. And my HCG levels were only 103. Which I know is VERY low. I was brought into tears as this was my first pregnancy and i wanted this soo badly, I think its pretty safe to say that this pregnancy is over? I am going to the doc in two days to see if my levels had changed, but i really doubt they will, i just have that feeling anyways. No bleeding today, only a brown dischage. PLEASE guys respond I need absoutley anyones thoughts on this!!!!!

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Feb 2nd, 2010, 18:12 PM	#2
shocker Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: London Posts: 3,590	how far along are you? If your 4 weeks along then those numbers are within the normal range, no-one here can tell you im afraid, your going to have to wait til the next test will keep fx for you and bean

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Feb 2nd, 2010, 18:15 PM	#3
momtobe.x0x Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 17	The thing is i dont know how far along i am now. I was told last week aprx. 4.5 weeks which would make me 5.5 weeks now. The doc said if that was true than my numbers should have been in the tens of thousands. My last menstal period was December 25th, 2009/ I ovulated aprx. on Jan.8th and I do know that my partner and I were trying to conceive that entire week of ovulation.

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Feb 2nd, 2010, 18:24 PM	#4
shocker Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: London Posts: 3,590	nope! tens of thousands isnt accurate at all hun http://www.pregnancyloss.info/hcg_levels.htm and according to your date of conception you could be anywhere from 4 weeks to 5 weeks but no more than that, it sounds like your hcg is in the right bracket, try not to worry hun until you get your second test

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Feb 2nd, 2010, 18:27 PM	#5
BabyHaines Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Suffolk, UK Posts: 2,297	I'm unsure, but wanted to wish you luck xx

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Feb 2nd, 2010, 18:30 PM	#6
momtobe.x0x Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 17	that does give me some temperary relief. But the bleeding and cramping still realy concerns me.

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Feb 2nd, 2010, 19:26 PM	#7
Gizmo Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Formerly Wilmslow, Cheshire now Ottawa Canada Posts: 173	Bleeding in the first trimester is quite common..... your HCG levels are ok for 4-5 weeks... The cramping is a concern but because you are so early that also can be quite normal.... ( I cramped untill 6 weeks) The only way of knowing for sure is having another blood draw and then seeing if the numbers double in 48-72 hours...... Its a good sign that the bleeding is brown and slowing. www.betabase.info This site has an online doubling calculator. Hope the numbers go up for you

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Feb 3rd, 2010, 02:01 AM	#8
anita665 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Norfolk, UK Posts: 2,689	I know its difficult but try to stay positive. Bleeding is really common in early pregnancy and not always a problem. I had bleeding too and my doctor told me that sure it can be a miscarriage but for more than half the women he see's, their pregnancy continues without further problems. The cramping is also a very normal feeling. Lots of women will tell you it feels just like you're going to start your period at any moment but its just your belly growing to accomodate baby. Good luck. x

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Feb 3rd, 2010, 13:15 PM	#9
momtobe.x0x Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 17	Well just as an update I am still bleeding and its no longer jsut when I wipe, It's not heavy...yet but it hasnt stop and the cramps come and go. I really have come to the acception that I am in the middle of a miscarriage. I will still go to the doctor tomorrow to get my HCG levels checked has it has been 48hrs just to see if they have dropped from 103. I really am saddened by this, as I know I'm not the first one to experience a miscarriage, It's jsut that I really want to join "motherhood" so badly.

Status: Offline

Feb 5th, 2010, 05:20 AM	#10
123davis Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 105	try and keep your fingers crossed. i started bleeding at 5 and half weeks and still am i have been diagnosed with subchronic hematoma, thats why im bleeding not because im miscarrying, even though there is a chance that can happen still. hope things work out for u. good luck xx

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