Abuse Survivors

sailorswifey · Aug 16th, 2009, 02:08 AM

ne ladies with abuse whether childhood or domestic?

Tezzy · Aug 16th, 2009, 02:27 AM

i went through 14 years of abuse whilst i was growing up. i moved out of my mums house just before i turned 15 to get away from it.

Emsy26 · Aug 17th, 2009, 06:48 AM

I went through 6 years of Domestic Violence! 3 kids in the situation

sailorswifey · Aug 18th, 2009, 01:33 AM

i'm in the process of getting out of mine. were seeing if hes serious about councling or not.....im not getting my hopes up ne time soon

bubbles · Aug 19th, 2009, 17:15 PM

I was abused as a child, I find it really hard to talk to anyone about it. I would like to speak to my mum about it but she was also abused by the same person and I don't want to stir up bad memories for her

mer01 · Aug 19th, 2009, 17:17 PM

hi, 8 years of childhood and 3 years of domestic here. Nice group

Jkelmum · Aug 19th, 2009, 17:35 PM

I was abused as a child was then taken into care then went on to have a domestic abusive parnter

...But i am here now and i am a survivor x

Tezzy · Aug 20th, 2009, 02:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bubbles

I was abused as a child, I find it really hard to talk to anyone about it. I would like to speak to my mum about it but she was also abused by the same person and I don't want to stir up bad memories for her

my mum was abused by the same person too. when i felt like i needed to talk i went to a councelor instead of speaking to her. i didnt want to bring up memories for my mum either

bubbles · Aug 23rd, 2009, 16:42 PM

I have a question for those who went through childhood abuse. Do you think you will be more open with your children about abuse because of it? I have already said I will make a point of letting Ed know that if any one ever hurts him in any way then he needs to speak to his mummy no matter what this person says they will not hurt him and mummy will believe him. I know he's only 9 months old but I want to get into talking to him now so it's not a difficult subject later on. I will tell him I was abused but will not go into detail with him as I don't feel he needs to know that.

Tezzy · Aug 24th, 2009, 07:05 AM

yes i will be more open with my children about abuse/bullies etc.. i would never want them to feel like they cant talk to me. my mum was always distant, never around to speak to and i felt very alone for years.

Aug 16th, 2009, 02:08 AM	#1
sailorswifey Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 14	Abuse Survivors ne ladies with abuse whether childhood or domestic?

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Aug 16th, 2009, 02:27 AM	#2
Tezzy Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: North Wales Posts: 11,131	i went through 14 years of abuse whilst i was growing up. i moved out of my mums house just before i turned 15 to get away from it.

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Aug 17th, 2009, 06:48 AM	#3
Emsy26 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: West Mids Posts: 2,638	I went through 6 years of Domestic Violence! 3 kids in the situation

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Aug 18th, 2009, 01:33 AM	#4
sailorswifey Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 14	i'm in the process of getting out of mine. were seeing if hes serious about councling or not.....im not getting my hopes up ne time soon

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Aug 19th, 2009, 17:15 PM	#5
bubbles Other BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 4,504	I was abused as a child, I find it really hard to talk to anyone about it. I would like to speak to my mum about it but she was also abused by the same person and I don't want to stir up bad memories for her

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Aug 19th, 2009, 17:17 PM	#6
mer01 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: rotherham Posts: 931	hi, 8 years of childhood and 3 years of domestic here. Nice group

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Aug 19th, 2009, 17:35 PM	#7
Jkelmum Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: In my own bubble Posts: 17,574	I was abused as a child was then taken into care then went on to have a domestic abusive parnter ...But i am here now and i am a survivor x

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Aug 23rd, 2009, 16:42 PM	#9
bubbles Other BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 4,504	I have a question for those who went through childhood abuse. Do you think you will be more open with your children about abuse because of it? I have already said I will make a point of letting Ed know that if any one ever hurts him in any way then he needs to speak to his mummy no matter what this person says they will not hurt him and mummy will believe him. I know he's only 9 months old but I want to get into talking to him now so it's not a difficult subject later on. I will tell him I was abused but will not go into detail with him as I don't feel he needs to know that.

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Aug 24th, 2009, 07:05 AM	#10
Tezzy Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: North Wales Posts: 11,131	yes i will be more open with my children about abuse/bullies etc.. i would never want them to feel like they cant talk to me. my mum was always distant, never around to speak to and i felt very alone for years.

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