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Old Jan 31st, 2009, 16:08 PM   #21
Tilly
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I noticed the same with me, and I also notice that person x can make a thread and it's all "yea congrats, thats great hun xxxx" yet if I make a thread I hardly get any replies or I seem to get more frosty ones. I sometimes get paranoid that people don't like me etc, but oh well. Im not very confident anyway, so i'll blame myself for this one.

Don't worry im sure it's not you!


 
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Old Jan 31st, 2009, 16:14 PM   #22
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Awwww Tilly


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Old Jan 31st, 2009, 16:23 PM   #23
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Sorry, i wasn't trying to get attention lol! but thanks anyway


 
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Old Jan 31st, 2009, 17:13 PM   #24
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Well, I've just read this so thought I'd better reply! Don't want to perpetuate the problem! xx


 
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Old Jan 31st, 2009, 17:24 PM   #25
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Don't worry I feel like that a lot to.

It's just the way it goes.

Hugs Simone


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Old Jan 31st, 2009, 17:56 PM   #26
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I think because I can be a bit of a loony tune at times people don't know how to take me so I'm always a bit paranoid about what everyone thinks of me, but I realize now I should just relax and be me and it's helped having so much reassurance! This forum is fab and I doubt I'd have managed through 1st tri without it! Thanks ladies x


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Old Jan 31st, 2009, 17:59 PM   #27
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Awww! to the original poster & also to Tilly (& anyone else feeling like this)

its hard to keep up with a forum as busy as BnB but I don't think anyone would intentionally ignore anyone
(unless they seemed argumentative & I don't think thats the case with either of you)

People invariably do make friends with people in similar situations to themselves & maybe they tend to speak mainly to each other - but not in a 'cliquey' sorta way
(well I don't think so anyway) so I'd say just keep posting regularly & im sure loads of people will welcome you into their 'groups' of regular people to chat to once you become a familiar face

Honestly, there are LOADS of really lovely people on here, some of whom might've been members for a long time? but just remember, we all felt a little shy & insecure to begin with ... but now we are part of the scenery at BnB & I bet before you know it you'll be just as addicted as we are! xx


 
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Old Jan 31st, 2009, 18:00 PM   #28
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aw hun, I have felt this! I am a paranoid person.. always bothered what people think of me etc. we shouldnt really care. and hi by the way.. Im from wolves so not far from you xxx


 
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Old Jan 31st, 2009, 18:13 PM   #29
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just wanted to say big we all feel like this sometimes honey, but a big forum this happens, and its certainly nothing you've done honey, big big x


 
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Old Jan 31st, 2009, 22:40 PM   #30
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I have felt that way before too. All of sudden the thread stops...and I am like "what????"


 
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