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Aug 7th, 2007, 22:58 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | aawew hunni lets us no how u get on |
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Aug 7th, 2007, 23:21 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I hope you do feel better soon. Good to hear your are surrounded by support. Is it possible for you to try doing something you enjoy, some kind of hobby or even perhaps find a new one? |
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Aug 8th, 2007, 03:17 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | When my first husband and I split, I thought I'd never get over it. I know what you're going through sweetie...hang in there. There were days when my kids were the ONLY reason I got out of bed and kept trying. My mom talked to me until she was blue in the face. Finally, she gave me a little tough love. She said, "Yes, he's gone, but the world hasn't stopped turning and the sky hasn't fallen and you can't let any of this affect the kid's happiness and sense of a safe, balanced home." Of course I had to continue grieving, but I knew she was right. I'm so sorry you're going through this, but it gets better and you are strong, you just haven't found it yet. | | | | Status: Offline
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Aug 8th, 2007, 03:37 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Im sorry that you are feeling so low, but Please Please Please try to remember your Babies. They will always need you.  |
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Aug 8th, 2007, 09:48 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Aww Flossie, I'm so sorry to hear that you are feeling so low. I have no advise, but didn't want to read and run, just sending you hugs.  |
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Aug 8th, 2007, 10:17 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | So sorry your feelin so low!
I have no advice to give sorry hun, but just wanted to give u a hug  |
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Aug 8th, 2007, 18:41 PM
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| Well today was eventful i feel worse now than before  I had my app with the physciactric nurse who' was great ok to talk to but there's nothing they can do to help only suggest talking relate or someone like that he didnt think tablets would help or anything like that. H e spoke with my mum after and the ex's with me there and made me look a fool by bringing up the past which id forgotten and anyway to cut it short its not a diagnosis but he thinks it could be something like a personality disorder? His main fea now is for my safety but he also did stress that he would in no mind think that if there was harm to the kids to call the child protection team.  Anyway after coming home its evedant (sp) that my family now think that im not safe to look after my own kids let alone go back to where i live on my own without others being there etc or to live elsewhere with them and now really i dont feel any better for them telling me what they have done there's more besides but i wont go into that. For me its only made me feel worse than before now  |
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Aug 8th, 2007, 18:48 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Your ex was there??
Its not a cure over night hun but I am surprised to what sounds like depression to me some further help was not offered.
I hope I don't upset you here and I know as you say theres more beside what you feel comfortable talking about but after trying to top yourself with tablets with only you & the kids in the house I am not surprised people are taking control over that and believe me your lucky its your family doing it hun!!! |
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Aug 8th, 2007, 19:02 PM
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| No he wasnt there only his mum. And i take no offence in what you say i just find it hard thats all. |
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Aug 8th, 2007, 19:09 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Oh jeez hun I have no idea what to say
Your family are there for you and want to help, maybe it is for the best that they take over for a bit, as you really don't want to do anything you will later regret
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