You are unregistered, please register and join the community.
BabyandBump - Pregnancy, Trying to conceive, Baby & Parenting Forum

Go Back   BabyandBump > Lounge Area > General Chatter
  

Welcome to BabyandBump's

General Chatter

 Forum - This forum is for anything you might want to talk about but can't find a forum for! What did you get up to today? Got much planned on the weekend? Get chatting! This thread is called '

I dont think i can ....

' and is in our

Lounge Area

 section.

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
Old May 19th, 2007, 16:12 PM   #1
Imi
Mum (Mom)
Inactive
 
Imi's Avatar

Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Any Place I Call Home
Posts: 8,150

Thanked others: 4
Thanked 34 times in 34 posts



I dont think i can ....


I dont think i can do this anymore ive had enough ....

Heart consultnt says no more tests can be done till after baby is born and i have no idea how long im gonna be here, no treatment can be done only close obs and keep me stable ....

Still geting pains but not regular (which is good) now talk of 32wk induction, and baby head down still ....

What the hell is wrong with me??? cant even do the most natural thing in the world properly without trying to do myself in and damaging my baby ..... surley my body did enough in december?

Bet you lot are sick of hearing bout my shite, tbh im sick of myself, im not even capable of lookin after madeleine, not much of a mother to her am i.

Im usless

Sorry for the whine im just so fed up, all this is so unfair ...
Status: Offline
 
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFacebook this post!
Reply With Quote
Old May 19th, 2007, 16:19 PM   #2
Suz
TTC a little Fluzy
BabyandBump Team
 
Suz's Avatar

Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Sacramento California
Posts: 15,151

Thanked others: 714
Thanked 990 times in 875 posts

I'm Currently Feeling: 



Awe Imi,

Dont ever doubt yourself. You are one hell of a Mother! You alway do anything for you LaLa. And when the New LO arrives, you will be a wonderful mother for her too. I can totaly understand why you are feeling this way tbh. My goodness you have been through way too much. My thoughts are with you and Im sure I speak for everyone. We are not tired of hearing you whine. We just want you to get better.


xxxSuzxxx
Status: Offline
 
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFacebook this post!
Reply With Quote
Old May 19th, 2007, 16:21 PM   #3
TTC #1 since sept 2005
BabyandBump Team
 
Arcanegirl's Avatar

Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Glasgow
Posts: 10,227

Thanked others: 37
Thanked 653 times in 592 posts

I'm Currently Feeling: 



Cant think of anything to add to what Suz has said. We only want you to get better Imi, whine away we wont get bored of it
Status: Offline
 
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFacebook this post!
Reply With Quote
Old May 19th, 2007, 17:07 PM   #4
♥ Caitlins Mummy
BabyandBump Admin
 
Wobbles's Avatar

Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: North Wales
Posts: 26,776

Thanked others: 1,473
Thanked 1,469 times in 1,225 posts

I'm Currently Feeling: 



Right you woman I have said this to you on the phone & I’m going to say it now that you are in NO WAY to blame for this. I can’t imagine or pretend to know how you are feeling all I know is I am gutted for you hun that you are going through this shit in the first place.

You in the safest of places for the care you need for you & bump even for Maddie & Gav – you will get through this.

You’re not useless – you have to make yourself better that’s all.

You could not have prevented this, you weren’t in control & you were NOT to blame … Being incapable of looking after Maddie isn’t really the right word sweetie your VERY capable of being a Mummy, you have such a happy smiling daughter she’s a little gem to have (bar at 5am lol) your just a little poorly at the moment .... that has no reflection on your parenting abilities.

As for sick of hearing you whine I don’t think anyone would not understand that you want to let off a bit of how you are feeling – an you should babe If listening helps then I’m 100% sure everyone here is happy to.
Status: Offline
 
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFacebook this post!
Reply With Quote
Old May 19th, 2007, 17:19 PM   #5
Chat happy BnB member
 
bexxie's Avatar

Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 2,031

Thanked others: 1
Thanked 29 times in 27 posts



Oh Imi

Dont say these things about yourself hun,I dont know you well but what i do know is you are one fantastically strong girl. You have done nothing to deserve this, you are a fabulous mum to maddie and will be a great mum to the next bubba too.

You are feeling low coz you are so poorly and will come through this,I wish there was something I could say to make you better but just wish you my very best hunnie

Chin up lovie and I just hope everything goes good for you
Bex.x
Status: Offline
 
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFacebook this post!
Reply With Quote
Old May 19th, 2007, 17:44 PM   #6
Chat happy BnB member

Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 2,172

Thanked others: 126
Thanked 257 times in 257 posts



everyone else said it for me.

SO THE BIGGEST IN THE WORLD
Status: Offline
 
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFacebook this post!
Reply With Quote
Old May 19th, 2007, 18:16 PM   #7
Chat happy BnB member
 
Caroline's Avatar

Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: North Devon
Posts: 2,009

Thanked others: 18
Thanked 39 times in 38 posts



I don't think there is much else I can add to what everyone else has said.

you are incredibly strong and brave to cope with all that you have and if you need to winge and let off steam we don't mind.

, hope bubba stays put until 32 weeks for you.

Thinking of you, Gav and Maddie.

Last edited by Caroline; May 20th, 2007 at 11:44 AM.
Status: Offline
 
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFacebook this post!
Reply With Quote
Old May 19th, 2007, 19:32 PM   #8
Jo
Mum of 2 little angels/devils
BabyandBump Team
 
Jo's Avatar

Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: West yorkshire
Posts: 6,923

Thanked others: 137
Thanked 341 times in 328 posts

I'm Currently Feeling: 



Aww hun
I don't know what to add to what everyone else has written

But in no way shape or form are you useless!!!, I see that written again and i'll come to Widnes and kick ya ass

It is not your fault that your health is like it is, please don't think like that
I for one am not sick of hearing from you TBH I am glad we can offer you even the tiniest bit of support when you need it most
Status: Online
 
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFacebook this post!
Reply With Quote
Old May 19th, 2007, 19:34 PM   #9
Other
Senior BnB member
 
Iwantone!!!'s Avatar

Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Warrington
Posts: 8,022

Thanked others: 154
Thanked 597 times in 595 posts

I'm Currently Feeling: 



aawww my heart aches for u u have been so much keep ur chin up i no may be hard for u we are all here for 4u!!!!!
Status: Offline
 
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFacebook this post!
Reply With Quote
Old May 19th, 2007, 19:47 PM   #10
KX
Senior BnB member
 
KX's Avatar

Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Livingston, Scotland
Posts: 5,320

Thanked others: 15
Thanked 74 times in 73 posts

I'm Currently Feeling: 



ur a fab mum hun, dont ever doubt urself xx
Status: Online
 
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFacebook this post!
Reply With Quote
Reply

  BabyandBump > Lounge Area > General Chatter



Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
KINA!!! (lost spoilers, dont read if you dont want to know) Layla General Chatter 13 May 14th, 2007 17:40 PM
Dont think i will....... loop Pregnancy - Second Trimester 7 Mar 17th, 2007 07:18 AM
Dont know why ... Trinity General Chatter 5 Mar 3rd, 2007 13:23 PM
I just dont know what to do gaby Home Life, Relationships & Finance 19 Jan 17th, 2007 16:33 PM


All times are GMT. The time now is 08:27 AM.


Powered by vBulletin® ©2008 Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd