Cat

Just wanted to say a farewell to everyone as I have decided to discontinue using the site, and I dont like to just slink off without saying anything.

This has been a decision of my own, after much thinking recently. I no longer feel that bnb is the right place for me. Which is not to say anything bad of other site users or start the gossip mill running. But surfice to say Im a stong opionionated person who has quite different beliefs, lifestyle and views to a large percentage of users here, and this has at times caused conflict, that has resulted in mine and other users alienation, which as this is a support forum is unfair on anyone. But at the same time I am who I am and do not wish to tame the way I feel or speak. This forum is wonderfull and is responsible for me making some great friends, and given me lots of abvice and support, but I feel a lot of the time that although we share the mutual bond of having or wanting to have children, maybe I have very little else in common with most people here, and frequently say or do the wrong things, and feel akward.

Anyhow on to pastures new and all that, good luck to everyone and your TTCing and pregnancies. families etc.

Wobbles

ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

You can't go woman because you have different opinions than others. Everyone has different opinions - stronger opinions than others in certains topics an so on. We're all different Cat.

I enjoy you on my forum & I'm gutted that stupid gossip & bitching has caused you to feel this way. Only one person was able to resolve any bad feeling amicably with you away from the forum & that shows adults can resolve such feeling shame others felt the need to dig at you & I'm really sorry to see that the result is you feeling unable to continue your part in BabyandBump.

I hope you will reconsider Cat I really do but I also understand

Trinity

Aww Cat .. dont go!! Will miss you

Seems such a shame really .. but if you feel it is the right thing for you to do then that is up to you.

Would be nice to see you every now and again though .. let us know when you have had your bubs.

Take care hun, all the best.

xxx

Layla

Sorry to hear this Cat, i agree with Wobbles, you cant go just coz you have different opinions to others, its what makes us all who we are.

I hope your not going coz of our arguement, i thought/hoped we had sorted things out between us over the emails we exchanged?

If you do deicde that this is best for you then i wish you all the best with your pregnancy, not long now!! hope you have a good birthing experience.

take care

xx

LynnieH

Cat, don't go. I think it is important for other forum members to get a rounded veiw of life and to recognise that not everyone will agree with their point of veiw. I really value getting a range of advice and support from people with different beliefs and situations to mine. PLease stay we need allsorts to keep balance!

Jo

Cat don't be daft woman, differant opinions and parenting styles make us who we are
It is a shame if you have had conflicts with other members but that happens everywhere not just on forums

please reconsider hun

If you still feel it is the right decision please at least keep us updated now and again

xxx

Imi

Oh cat!!!

I can understand why you feel the need to go i honestly do as i have felt the same this past week! Wanted to do the same myself but after a long chat with charl i realised that it if i did go then it wouldn't achive anything

Please reconsider, you are a valued,friendly loved member of this forum and you are thought alot of by a great many people on here who do value your opinion and advice very much!!

I honestly wish you wouldn't go and i hope that you decide to stay, as charl said this is HER forum, you haven't done anything wrong ....

Please stay ...

Dionne

i thnk it would be silly to leave because we dont all agree all the time!

every mother does thinks there own way, its good to hear all different opinions.

Arcanegirl

Cant say anything more than what others have already said but i would also hate to see you go Cat.

Wobbles

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Don't want the disagreements right now ....