General Chatter

KX · Mar 14th, 2007, 23:30 PM

My friend has lost her baby at 12+3.

She was due the 18th Sept I am the 28th. she had a scan and everything was ok apart from bubs had an enlarged bladder, sonographer said not to worry about it, but she wasn't convinced. I persuaded her to hound the MW for a re scan, and the news was devastating.

They have just bought a house with garden and a passat to accomodate the baby.

I feel shit, we work together and were due 10 days apart. I hope she takes a while off work to recouperate.

Sorry I am just so upset. Life is so cruel sometimes.

LynnieH · Mar 14th, 2007, 23:33 PM

It is so hard to get news like this when you are pregnant. A friend of mine lost her baby at 22 weeks when I was 26 weeks. It was difficult to see her but in a way it helped her to spend tie with Frankie when she was born. I gave her a star and named it after the baby.

Imi · Mar 14th, 2007, 23:46 PM

Awww hun ...

It's hard to know what to do or say when this happends ... just let her know you will be there for her.
It devestaing and life can be so cruel ... just be a friend thats all you can do.

xxx

Cat · Mar 15th, 2007, 11:34 AM

Sorry hun, this is awfull news.

to your friend.

Wobbles · Mar 15th, 2007, 11:40 AM

I think the best thing you can do K is just let her know your there for her if she needs you x Send a card maybe some flowers telling her. Its hard when your friends are pregnant & you are either having problems or experienced loss.