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Mar 15th, 2007, 16:47 PM
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Mar 15th, 2007, 19:33 PM
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| awww poor thing, its hard as a friend to know what to do or say! My mate from work and her best mate were due one day apart! her friend gave birth at 30 weeks and the baby died after 7 hours, must have been so hard for her and for my mate as she was still pg. She's fine now though and doesnt find it hard with my mates baby. still devestating news poor thing  |
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Mar 15th, 2007, 20:30 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | debbie goes in 2moro to have the baby removed. She is going under anaesthetic me thinks. I just don't understand why they left a dead foetus inside her until tomorrow, I thought they'd want it out right away.
i think I am going to send her flowers, I just have no idea what to do.
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Mar 15th, 2007, 20:38 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Oh god the poor girl! I don't understand how they can leave someone for even an hour like that it can't help you mental state at all!
K I would just pop something in short an sweet and to the point "I'm here for you when you need me" |
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Mar 15th, 2007, 20:50 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Thanks Wobbles, I was thinking something like that-but will definitley use that one |
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Mar 15th, 2007, 22:15 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | when this happened to me i was gven the option to have the op that day, but wanted to wait to see if t would happen natural. it didnt so 2 days later called the hospital and arranged a d&c
im sorry for your friends loss |
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Mar 15th, 2007, 22:31 PM
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| I think the message wobbs has come up with is the right thing to say ...
As long as your friend knows your there hun, theres nothing much more you can do, she will find the support helpful ...
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Mar 18th, 2007, 17:45 PM
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| Awww Karrina I'm so sorry for your friend, that is so awful, especially after the first scan was supposedly ok. You must be feeling so disappointed too xxx |
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Mar 18th, 2007, 21:29 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | What sad news, im so sorry for your friend |
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