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Aug 23rd, 2008, 14:13 PM
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Just had to post a lil rant here 
Why oh why do some people have to make stupid, horrible comments?? Maybe i'm being silly & oversensitive but this one really bugged me -
Maya was quite small when she was born ( 5lb 8oz ) so her clothes tend to swamp her. I've bought a few vests in tiny baby size but haven't really got much else as I know it won't be long before she's 7/8lb & filling her newborn clothes nicely. So my mums friend popped round the other day & was holding Maya. She then turned round & said ' I don't know why you bother putting her in proper outfits you should just leave her in babygrows. She just looks fat & bulky when you dress her!! ' WTF my baby is teeny tiny how can she look fat?? Even if she was a chubby lil baby so what?? She then said that Maya felt like she weighed a tonne!! I just felt she was being so god damned rude. How would she like it if I called one of her kids fat??
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Aug 23rd, 2008, 14:23 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Dont listen to any nasty comments hun, Maya is gorgeous! And like you said, she'll fit into her bigger clothes soon enough.
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Aug 23rd, 2008, 14:32 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | maya is gorgoues hun , and everyone has always got something to say.
It pisses me off too cos babies come in all shapes and sizes just like everyone else. There is no perfect baby ( although of course in every mothers eyes there children are perfect and rightly so ) but you know what im getting at 
i get it enough with ellas birthmark but let it go over the top of your head! After all there is nothing wrong with her!! |
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Aug 23rd, 2008, 14:40 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | tel her to p**s off...thats really rude and if you didnt dress her she would be like oh cant u afford clothes or something ridiculous ...just let the comments go over your head u have a beautiful little girl and she was tiny when she was born if she ways a tonne then god my baby will be extra heavy lol.... |
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Aug 23rd, 2008, 14:40 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | aw, just ignore it. i tell ya some people just say things to hear themselves talk! she is beautiful! and since when do babies need to worry about there weight? so what if baggy clothes make her look chubby? |
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Aug 23rd, 2008, 15:37 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | just ignore her. mayas your baby and you can dress her the way you want.
and as for saying she looks fat and bulky, thats just fuckin ridiculous!! |
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Aug 23rd, 2008, 16:19 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: |  You should have told her to go buy some baby clothes for you if the ones Maya had on were unsuitable.
Don't listen to people, honey! |
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Aug 23rd, 2008, 17:30 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Dont listen hun she is beautiful. Some people just dont know when to shut there mouth, which I have had an experience with. You dress you babe as you like and if people dont like it then so F***, they dont have to look or comment. xxx |
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Aug 23rd, 2008, 17:31 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | How rude!! Dont take any notice hun!! |
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Aug 23rd, 2008, 17:38 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Ohhun, don't listen to people like her. Grace was 5lb 4oz when she was born but i on;y bought her a couple of outfits in tiny baby coz soon enough she was in her newborn, so i totally understand where your coming from. To be honest it sounds like an odd thing for someone to say of a tiny baby. She was just picking at you ignore her hun xxx
Maya is beautiful by the way xx |
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