| Oh, yes, I have the fun of dealing with two exes - my OH has children from both. We've been together for over 10 years and the first few years were the worst. One of them tried very hard to play games and try to get Dan back.
The fortunate thing, I don't get involved with them and rarely talk to them unless I absolutely have to. I let Dan deal with any issues with them.
One of them is a bitch and she sure talks to their son badly about me. He never wants to be here unless Dan is here.
The other one is manipulative, but at least I can say from her that the kids are respectful to me and are excited to come here.
Unfortunately, when one has kids with someone else, that person will be in your life forever. Sad but true. | 
coming from someone who refuses to get a job and tells my oh that she isn't responsible for their child, its up to my oh to provide everything for their son.
