Death scares the poop outta me but if it didn't....
I'd Try and see as many of my family as possible, and friends also too. Whilst spending time with my DH, i'd also make sure we had morning sex, he loves that.....and its something we don't do often enough.

I'd also make sure that no matter what has happened in life or what will happen, that i love him so much more than he could imagine and that he turned my life around when i never felt it was possible........
Finally after a day with all my fave people, i'd go to my brothers grave and tell my angel to be waiting and that i'll see him soon
Sorry for the morbid last bit, but its true!!!!!