oOKayOo

Right i have had enough of being looked down when i go into town , be it in the park or doing a food shop even sitting having a starbucks.

I dont dress like a chav or anything like that im very smartly dressed so i dont know why i get those looks like im a piece of poo.

I just want to put a piece of paper on my back or on my forhead saying :

Im 21 not 12
Yes im still with my partner
Yes he is the father of both kids
Yes he does work and earns a good wage
No we are not on benefits
Yes we have a car
Yes my daughter has tantrums and cries .. she is a toddler afterall
Yes my baby cries when she is hungry does not mean im a bad mother :S
Yes if you do tut at me i WILL say something and im not scared to do so
No my daughters birthmark is not a gift from god its a birthmark she was born with it
No its not awful and stop staring like its the most ugliest thing ever.
Yes it will go away when she is older whats it to you anyway..
No i wont get laser treatment on it , it stays its who she is, gives her character.

hmm i think that covers it..
feel so much better ranting!

bexy_22

hey hun, good to rant isnt it?? I get the same looks and I've learnt not to care. They don't know me. And I bet half those people who look down on you aren't near as good mothers as you are if they are so shallow in their opinions of others, hope they aren't teaching these values tot heir kids. Don't worry about them, they're all idiots for stereotyping x

welshcakes79

well said ..
get it off your chest and rant away hun, sometimes life can get too much x

Nicnac

You go girl.

Nobody has the right to look down on anyone. Whatever their personal ignorant opinion maybe.

You've been blessed with two happy healthy girls.

Hold you head up high and don't let what they say go over your head instead let it go beneath your feet - it's where it deserves to be!

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princess_bump

good for u! bloody people, how dare they judge.

xarlenex

They have no clue who you are or what kind of life you live, they have no right to judge x

LeaArr

good rant. I agree, people need to keep their noses out of stuff..

CareBear

Hope you feel better now! Have noticed this more and more often nowadays that people feel they have the right to comment on complete strangers and people seem to be so inconsiderate and rude too, I'm sure this never used to be the case a few years ago. Good on you though for standing up for yourself

Elli21

Good rant..i hope you enjoyed it.
And so you should say something to people who tut at you, i do!

You go girl.

Mynxie

if ignorance is bliss, some people are orgasmic!