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Old Sep 13th, 2006, 01:34 AM   #11
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the girls didnt go to after school club today, there uncle came to pick them up so i missed her again!

she emailed me back tonight tho, says thngs are shit at teh mo and she has been crying alot but she doesnt want to talk about it, not just with me, she doesnt want to talk about it with anyone.......so thats her not wanting to admit there is something wrong or shes made a mistake.

i told her i was here if she needed but there is not much else i can do, we have grown apart since she started being with him so i cant beat it out of her like i used to, i have to step back and let her come to me, if she doesnt then fair enough

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Old Sep 13th, 2006, 01:47 AM   #12
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Awww well at least she replied babe!!!

You have done the right thing, you stepping back will allow her to feel she can come to as she used to, it is just a point of getting used to eachother agian hun, slowly does it!

Glad she got in touch, do you feel better now, at least it's a start?

Take care babe xx
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Old Sep 13th, 2006, 01:57 AM   #13
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i dont feel happier coz i know shes unhapppy with him and there is nothing i could do, i knew it would happen but she wouldnt listen so i walked away so i wouldnt have to watch it happening, but now i know it has anyway.

i dont know what will happen from now on, we are moving away so i cant be there for her and to be honest if she doesnt want to talk then i cant do anything anyway. while she is with him we can never be as close as we were, and alot has happend since we stopped talking, think to much water has gone under the bridge for us to ever get back what we had..

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Old Sep 13th, 2006, 14:07 PM   #14
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At least she knows you're there for her as a shoulder to cry on when she is ready to talk.
At the moment you've done all she will let you do, and there should be more Layla's in the world!

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awww hunny

i totaly agree with hayley though their should be more layla's in the world

Im sure intime though she will open up to someone maybe it wont be you but at least she knows your just at the other end of an email if she wants to talk to you

take care hun and keep your chin up youve done your best
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