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Jul 23rd, 2008, 17:33 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  |  Mates. . .
Pffft ye right!
Its my 17th on the 4th September [  ] an its my mates birthday the same day too, same age an everything but the thing is they all want us to do a double night out! 
You might think .. well whats the problem?
Well the 'problem' is that i don't think i could leave J with anyone that young, family or not. i just honestly can't see myself going out without him at the minute and they are saying am stupid an boring because i won't leave him with my mum who kindly offered which i declined.
Am not being boring for saying no am i? xx |
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Jul 23rd, 2008, 17:36 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | No, you just being worried. But you should go out, you deserve it!! You should trust your mum and go out and have a good time  I called home contantly the 1st time I left kyle home, but I knew deep down he was fine x |
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Jul 23rd, 2008, 18:19 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | No, You're not being stupid. I'd do the same thing. I'm going to be the exact same with Lexie when she's here. I'll not want to leave her with anyone. But your mates should understand. And they shouldn't be so negative towards you. I'm sure you'll have a nice birthday if you go out, or stay in with J  |
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Jul 23rd, 2008, 18:22 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I was the same with my first , and with my second i was different , i went out and im so glad i did . That couple of hours to yourself really does a world of good. |
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Jul 23rd, 2008, 18:28 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Not sure. my minds completely towards not going but everyone keeps telling me i need it! x |
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Jul 23rd, 2008, 18:28 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | No, you're not being stupid. However, it might be good for you to go out. If you feel uncomfortable then just leave and go home. That way at least you've tried.
A friend of mine felt the same as you, and now her son is eight months old and she has never left the house with him unless it's to go to a doctors appointment. She won't leave her child with anyone, even the father and she won't go more than a few feet from him. IMO as much as she cares, it isn't healthy. |
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Jul 23rd, 2008, 18:37 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Sooner or later Rach you may feel like you spend too much time staying at home with a baby. You need your mommy time.
I am quite sure Jayden will be in good hands with your mom, and I think after all you've been through, you enjoy a night out.
You are lucky you have someone to take care of him when needed.  |
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Jul 23rd, 2008, 18:40 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Take it you all agree that i should go out then lol x |
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Jul 23rd, 2008, 19:04 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I think you should cos it will give you some time to yourself and to let your hair down but if you dont feel like you want to then dont Do what you want x |
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Jul 23rd, 2008, 19:16 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I understand why you want to stop with Jayden, and your mates should undestand that but you also need time for yourself aswell, so I think you should have a good night out (Your mum will be fine).. you deserve a night out |
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