I hope my post wasn't taken out of context (and we're certainly veering O/T
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Like Wobbles said I don't think we have any members intent on doing that. I just meant that I always thought in the past it would be the worst thing in the world to be single and financially insecure with kids which is part of why I wanted to wait until I was married and settled into a career.
Though I appreciate these things don't always come with age, I and most people I know are in a better place now than we were ten years ago.
My friend tried to explain that you'd always cope when you had children no matter what.
