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Originally Posted by Kina
Weestar I don't think you're a bad mother, but like Dionne, I don't fully understand that if you had benefits coming in why you couldn't stretch to a tin of formula a week for your baby. I'm sure your children are loved, like all of us on here love our children. As you'd discussed with your HV that you were taking her off of formula I would have hoped as a responsible HV they would have looked into helping you get what your baby nutritionally needed, rather than advising what they did. But as we all know not all HVs are responsible with the advice that they dish out!! |
that was my point i wasnt getting ANY benefits we were living off £138 having a pre pay matere and using £30 a week on that alone for heating ect, petrol for the car to run back and forward to the housing trying to ple for help, buying nappies baby jars food for Adele bread milk all the essentials we needed to live of for one week didnt even cover so some weeks we had to do withought some things. We had to pay £30 straight off just for the rent as we werent entitle to housing or council tax benefits because OH was recieveing £28 SSP he was only entitle to that because he had only been employed for 6 weeks when he was signed of by his gp.
As for the HV they did try and get us the help we needed but it didnt happen, we are now having to pay £138 a fortnight rent to clear of the remaining arrears
so i hope now i have made it clear we done that choice because we had no other option
as for the re usable nappies ect it costs alot to start it off and as the situation we were in we couldnt afford to buy all the re usable nappies wipes ect hence why i had to use disposable ones.
as for the jars, i didnt have a cooker and have only just bought one but it isnt installed because their was no place for it in the kitchen so now the kitchen and bathroom are being done as i type I WILL BE MAKING MY OWN when all this is finnished