I just cant comprehend men/women that discard their children. It's their own flesh and blood for gods sake!! As long as you keep encouraging contact, your daughter will see that its daddy thats letting her down, not you. Although, maybe if you dont contact him at all, he could go either way and either not see her at all or be begging to see her. It's a bit of a dodgy tactic but at least then you'll know for certain where is priorities lie.
