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Originally Posted by Rachiebaby24  Nope they dont. Trying to explain to him why I have only eaten three mouthfulls of food is getting on my nerves!! is it my fault that everything feels pushed up under my chest!! I am NOT starving the baby!! and so what if I drink loads of strawberry milkshake!! it doesnt make me feel full so i can drink it and isnt that good for the baby??!! One minute im starving it and teh next im giving it too much milkshake!
and why are you tired...you havent done anything!! - Im bloody carrying a child that is draining all my energy!!!
My OH thinks he knows it all.... he thinks that by WEARING a bra it makes your boobs sag....so everytime i get home he is like....take your bra off..let them free...they have been tied up all day!! AAAARGH!!!
and for the record...wearing jeans does not strangle the baby!!!!!!!
rant over for now..... ha ha ha |
Sorry to say it but your OH would annoy the heck outta me! It sounds like he needs a few lessons in life to drag him out of lala land where he has obviously spent the mostpart of his life!
He needs to learn that just because he thinks it / wants it to be true does not make it so!!
If I were you I'd tell him that the baby will take all the goodness that it needs from you and so long as you are eating SOMETHING (and maybe taking your prenatal vits/folic acid) it is very difficult to starve the baby! And then that drinking milkshake is good - ensures you get your fluids, and THEN that you are an adult and should be the one to decide what you do and do not eat!
I would go on to tell him to google the stages of pregnancy so he can see exactly how much you
are doing; You're making a baby! Which is draining to say the least. Then I'd say "If you're so clued up on what's best for baby, you should know that baby needs me to rest up and get lots of sleep!
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Wearing the jeans strangles the baby? That's a joke right... Oh and tell him that unless he wants a partner with boobs round by her ankles, it really is not a good idea for him to keep pestering you to take your bra off!
And FINALLY I would ask him WHO'S CARRYING THIS BABY?! Are you even capable of making a baby? Do you know what it's like to be pregnant? NO, So shut the hell up!
Sorry but your rant made me really mad for you... The worst thing MrBum ever did when I was pregnant was call me 'fatty' all the time, but he understood what I was going through as best he could and let me sleep all day if I wanted to - he even went round the block at 12am because I had a craving for fries! lol
Sorry for my follow-on rant, but I think you really need to batter some sence into that boy! From the sounds of him I couldn't put up with your OH on the best of days... but if I was living with him whilst pregnant I think I'd probably end up being thrown away for GBH, castration and possibly even murder...
Hope you give him what for!
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