Keeping Gender Secret - Page 3

morri · Mar 16th, 2010, 06:29 AM

I don't really see any problems with it, the child will decide itsself whether it wants to play with cars or barbies whether it likes dresses r pants more..

Lisa1302 · Mar 16th, 2010, 06:40 AM

I think its odd!

Actually I think that trying to make a child 'different' in the way they have will cause more issues than if they just did what everyone else does!
When the child starts school the other children will see that child as different, and will no doubt try to find out if boy or girl

Very confusing and I think it will back fire on the parents.

Lisa1302 · Mar 16th, 2010, 06:41 AM

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Originally Posted by morri

I don't really see any problems with it, the child will decide itsself whether it wants to play with cars or barbies whether it likes dresses r pants more..

then what happens when the child if is a boy, but a straight boy - grows up wearing dresses and frilly knickers and thinks this is normal?
How will that affect its life as a teenager and adult?

dizzyisacow · Mar 16th, 2010, 06:47 AM

i think its downright dumb!

hypnorm · Mar 16th, 2010, 06:49 AM

What happens when the toddler goes to nursery and need his/her nappy changing or the toilet? are they going to blindfold everyone?
Just strikes me as a bit odd!!

dizzyisacow · Mar 16th, 2010, 06:59 AM

so whne they are reffering to pop do they call him/her it?

Zarababy1 · Mar 16th, 2010, 07:57 AM

yeah like "hows pop?"..."Oh ITS fine!?" weird i dunno how it would work!

x-amy-x · Mar 16th, 2010, 07:59 AM

lol i think its ridiculous anyway

maybe im jus narrowminded

marley2580 · Mar 16th, 2010, 09:17 AM

I was reading this and thinking that I'd heard this story before. And you know what, I have. It's a story that you can find here The story of X

nikkip75 · Mar 16th, 2010, 09:55 AM

weird!!

its hard enough raising kids, why make more work for youself? cos i think it would be really hard work trying to keep your childs gender a secret!

I just couldnt be bothered

Mar 16th, 2010, 06:29 AM	#21
morri Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Hamburg(Germany) Posts: 6,135	I don't really see any problems with it, the child will decide itsself whether it wants to play with cars or barbies whether it likes dresses r pants more..

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Mar 16th, 2010, 06:40 AM	#22
Lisa1302 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Shropshire, UK Posts: 2,384	I think its odd! Actually I think that trying to make a child 'different' in the way they have will cause more issues than if they just did what everyone else does! When the child starts school the other children will see that child as different, and will no doubt try to find out if boy or girl Very confusing and I think it will back fire on the parents.

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Mar 16th, 2010, 06:47 AM	#24
dizzyisacow Other BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 9,807	i think its downright dumb!

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hypnorm Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Stroud, Gloucester Posts: 4,505	What happens when the toddler goes to nursery and need his/her nappy changing or the toilet? are they going to blindfold everyone? Just strikes me as a bit odd!!

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Mar 16th, 2010, 06:59 AM	#26
dizzyisacow Other BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 9,807	so whne they are reffering to pop do they call him/her it?

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Mar 16th, 2010, 07:57 AM	#27
Zarababy1 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Oxfordshire Posts: 7,647	yeah like "hows pop?"..."Oh ITS fine!?" weird i dunno how it would work!

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Mar 16th, 2010, 07:59 AM	#28
x-amy-x Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Teesside, UK Posts: 13,812	lol i think its ridiculous anyway maybe im jus narrowminded

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Mar 16th, 2010, 09:17 AM	#29
marley2580 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Forfar Posts: 6,100	I was reading this and thinking that I'd heard this story before. And you know what, I have. It's a story that you can find here The story of X

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Mar 16th, 2010, 09:55 AM	#30
nikkip75 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 4,354	weird!! its hard enough raising kids, why make more work for youself? cos i think it would be really hard work trying to keep your childs gender a secret! I just couldnt be bothered

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