Swearing in front of kids - Page 7

05wilkesm · Mar 14th, 2010, 13:33 PM

just thought i'd add scientists have proved that shouting and swearing when your hurt make it less painful!

xx

dizzyisacow · Mar 14th, 2010, 13:52 PM

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Originally Posted by 05wilkesm

just thought i'd add scientists have proved that shouting and swearing when your hurt make it less painful!

xx

that is true!! i swear in my head all the time but not as much out loud. every single time i hurt myself (every day) i say sh*t in my head or worse depending on the pain! and it does help.

Sarahkka · Mar 14th, 2010, 17:33 PM

Just wanted to add that my cat barfed all over Simon's baby quilt yesterday and I swore horribly and it did make me feel much better. The cat looked impressed, so I may have gotten through to him, too! There's a time and a place?

Minstermind · Mar 14th, 2010, 17:45 PM

Hahahahahahahaa...

Vicky2806 · Mar 14th, 2010, 18:13 PM

I swear a lot in work and at home tbh Fin is just starting to copy everything so I dont do it around him (not since I accidentally said sh*t and he copied me) but tbh I am a good person with good morals and I know my son will be the same - he goes to nursery an only last week they told me he one of the only ones that says please and thankyou all the time and has excellent manners - I think there are worse things than swearing but agree its not nice when you hear older children saying it - especially when they are at an age when they should know better

lizzieredrup · Mar 15th, 2010, 10:13 AM

I really try not to swear, I don't swear alot anyway, only if angry or i've hurt myself, but i'll usually say something like sugar or damn! My OH though is a different story, he swears alot and always has done, his mum is the same so its just habit for him now! It drives me mad lol he does really really try and he is very good with it now, will usually only swear if he knows the boys can't hear, although he does slip up sometimes! My boys do know there are 'naughty' words and that only adults can say them. Im sure they'll hear them all in school at some point!

rwhite · Mar 15th, 2010, 23:08 PM

I must say, I'm terrible at the moment

Mum keeps berating me for it - "HE CAN HEAR YOU, YOU KNOW..."
Yes mother...

I really need to nip my nasty habit in the bud, it's going to cause nothing but problems

x

Lucy_lu_84 · Mar 16th, 2010, 03:40 AM

Im guilty of swearint tbh, but I do try and curb it. However I do think kids are more likely to use the 'naughty' word if you make a big deal about not saying them. at least in my experience they do.

My dad swears lots, i think the F word is part of his language. I blame him being irish! lol He says it with out even realising, he said it all through my childhood, but i never used it. I just knew that it was an adult word. Same with my sister, her kids never picked up and used her bad language. Not saying it's right but also using it doesn't mean you will have a foul mouthed child!

dizzyisacow · Mar 16th, 2010, 03:49 AM

i dont know why but im actually getting worse

im even using a new word.
none of these in front of my son but if i do it when hes not there im bound to slip and say something when he is. even though he doesnt talk yet i need to rehabilitate myself.
i used to mostly say it in my head but now i say out loud.
is there a cure?

Amy-Lea · Mar 16th, 2010, 07:23 AM

I don't swear really, I do when I am typing, but it's not often they come out my mouth, if I swear it is infront of Darren and is the really horrible C's & T's but I only say it joking and the baby is never around, I won't swear infront of adults

I know I am 20 but I just think that anyone could know my Mum and tell her i swear so I don't

I got really embarressed the otehr day because in the hairdressers I said 'Oh yeah it was a great night I was so pissed..oooops' not that I'm embarressed to swear, just because i know the people knew my mum. My stepdad is known by his neices and nephews as 'The F man'

Mar 14th, 2010, 13:33 PM	#61
05wilkesm Pregnant (Expecting) Inactive Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Essex, England Posts: 1,195	just thought i'd add scientists have proved that shouting and swearing when your hurt make it less painful! xx

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Sarahkka Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Alberta, Canada Posts: 8,748	Just wanted to add that my cat barfed all over Simon's baby quilt yesterday and I swore horribly and it did make me feel much better. The cat looked impressed, so I may have gotten through to him, too! There's a time and a place?

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Mar 14th, 2010, 18:13 PM	#65
Vicky2806 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Cheshire Posts: 401	I swear a lot in work and at home tbh Fin is just starting to copy everything so I dont do it around him (not since I accidentally said sh*t and he copied me) but tbh I am a good person with good morals and I know my son will be the same - he goes to nursery an only last week they told me he one of the only ones that says please and thankyou all the time and has excellent manners - I think there are worse things than swearing but agree its not nice when you hear older children saying it - especially when they are at an age when they should know better

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Mar 15th, 2010, 10:13 AM	#66
lizzieredrup Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Wales Posts: 2,029	I really try not to swear, I don't swear alot anyway, only if angry or i've hurt myself, but i'll usually say something like sugar or damn! My OH though is a different story, he swears alot and always has done, his mum is the same so its just habit for him now! It drives me mad lol he does really really try and he is very good with it now, will usually only swear if he knows the boys can't hear, although he does slip up sometimes! My boys do know there are 'naughty' words and that only adults can say them. Im sure they'll hear them all in school at some point!

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Mar 15th, 2010, 23:08 PM	#67
rwhite Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Wellington, New Zealand Posts: 4,165	I must say, I'm terrible at the moment Mum keeps berating me for it - "HE CAN HEAR YOU, YOU KNOW..." Yes mother... I really need to nip my nasty habit in the bud, it's going to cause nothing but problems x

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Mar 16th, 2010, 03:40 AM	#68
Lucy_lu_84 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Rugby Posts: 3,622	Im guilty of swearint tbh, but I do try and curb it. However I do think kids are more likely to use the 'naughty' word if you make a big deal about not saying them. at least in my experience they do. My dad swears lots, i think the F word is part of his language. I blame him being irish! lol He says it with out even realising, he said it all through my childhood, but i never used it. I just knew that it was an adult word. Same with my sister, her kids never picked up and used her bad language. Not saying it's right but also using it doesn't mean you will have a foul mouthed child!

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Mar 16th, 2010, 03:49 AM	#69
dizzyisacow Other BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 9,807	i dont know why but im actually getting worse im even using a new word. none of these in front of my son but if i do it when hes not there im bound to slip and say something when he is. even though he doesnt talk yet i need to rehabilitate myself. i used to mostly say it in my head but now i say out loud. is there a cure?

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Mar 16th, 2010, 07:23 AM	#70
Amy-Lea Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 8,628	I don't swear really, I do when I am typing, but it's not often they come out my mouth, if I swear it is infront of Darren and is the really horrible C's & T's but I only say it joking and the baby is never around, I won't swear infront of adults I know I am 20 but I just think that anyone could know my Mum and tell her i swear so I don't I got really embarressed the otehr day because in the hairdressers I said 'Oh yeah it was a great night I was so pissed..oooops' not that I'm embarressed to swear, just because i know the people knew my mum. My stepdad is known by his neices and nephews as 'The F man'

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