think my Lo has a new friend.. The spooky kind

lesleyann · Mar 9th, 2010, 11:46 AM

So quite offten toys that have to be touched, moved ect just start randomly going off in his play pen when his in his highchair or even when his in there but not playing with them or near to them.

I "no" there is someone on our staircase my mum says when she was staying here someone was watching her, and when Lo is in the bath some times he will just stare at the top of the stairs and smile.

All i wants to no now though is, is it a child of the house type or a family member playing.

My family seem to pull friends in. More the boys than girls.

Minstermind · Mar 9th, 2010, 13:38 PM

Well, if he's smiling at them (and I do believe children have a good sense of these things), then I wouldn't be concerned and think it's a family member or whatnot.

xashleyx · Mar 9th, 2010, 14:22 PM

thats spooky, but i agree with minstermind, it dont seem to be bothering him, I would be freaked out tho lol im scared of everything! lol xx

RainbowDrop_x · Mar 9th, 2010, 14:29 PM

I must admit I would be a little bit scared.. But I agree children normally have a better sense of people/things than adults. I wouldn't worry too much aslong as you're LO isn't stressed or scared in anyway then I'm sure this new friend is fine

lottebot · Mar 9th, 2010, 14:44 PM

My little brother used to do that, and he still stands and talks to it.. we'll be saying Tyla what are you doing? and he said she wants my drink/toy/food. We don't know if its a imaginery friend though

maybe you're LO is daydreaming?

morri · Mar 9th, 2010, 15:06 PM

Imaginary friends are lovely arent they ^^

kaylynn040485 · Mar 9th, 2010, 15:30 PM

Ive actually got a similar thing going on just now and i wish i was as laid back about it as u because its terrifying me, toys going off, jessica waving to the wall, her night show that phsically needs to be switched on going off through the night (oh gets sent in to switch it off) and i have a motion sensore air freshner in the hall which goes off right through the night so lots going on suddenly. tbh if your child isnt bothered and your not i wouldnt be concerned!

lottebot · Mar 9th, 2010, 15:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kaylynn040485

Ive actually got a similar thing going on just now and i wish i was as laid back about it as u because its terrifying me, toys going off, jessica waving to the wall, her night show that phsically needs to be switched on going off through the night (oh gets sent in to switch it off) and i have a motion sensore air freshner in the hall which goes off right through the night so lots going on suddenly. tbh if your child isnt bothered and your not i wouldnt be concerned!

my brother does the same, he used to tell us when he was learning how to talk, that his "friend" had taken is toy & he wanted it back, but couldnt find her?

and as for the night, he'd wake my mum up standing up in his cot talking to it. It freaked me out alot

xx

lesleyann · Mar 9th, 2010, 16:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kaylynn040485

Ive actually got a similar thing going on just now and i wish i was as laid back about it as u because its terrifying me, toys going off, jessica waving to the wall, her night show that phsically needs to be switched on going off through the night (oh gets sent in to switch it off) and i have a motion sensore air freshner in the hall which goes off right through the night so lots going on suddenly. tbh if your child isnt bothered and your not i wouldnt be concerned!

im not bothered lol as i said men in my family/non-related but classed as family all seem to draw stuff liek this to them..

My little brother had a person who used to sing to him when he cried you could hear it over the monitor.

My dad used to play tug of war with his teddy who had floppy arms with someone and my nan would see the other arm straight out and stiff.

and some other stuff lol

I figure unless you pee a "friend" off your fine really and it/they Obv only want to play/ make Lo smile.

I think it might be more than 1 though.

kaylynn040485 · Mar 9th, 2010, 17:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lesleyann

Quote:

Originally Posted by kaylynn040485

Ive actually got a similar thing going on just now and i wish i was as laid back about it as u because its terrifying me, toys going off, jessica waving to the wall, her night show that phsically needs to be switched on going off through the night (oh gets sent in to switch it off) and i have a motion sensore air freshner in the hall which goes off right through the night so lots going on suddenly. tbh if your child isnt bothered and your not i wouldnt be concerned!

im not bothered lol as i said men in my family/non-related but classed as family all seem to draw stuff liek this to them..

My little brother had a person who used to sing to him when he cried you could hear it over the monitor.

My dad used to play tug of war with his teddy who had floppy arms with someone and my nan would see the other arm straight out and stiff.

and some other stuff lol

I figure unless you pee a "friend" off your fine really and it/they Obv only want to play/ make Lo smile.

I think it might be more than 1 though.

your so calm about it and u r right in everything your saying, think my imagination runs away with me and i get so jumpy, dont know if u remember the programme starnge but true but i remember an episode about a poltergeist and since then ive been terrified of all that goes bump in the night. Jessica even has a play tent thing in her room and im terrified walking past it in the dark coz i think it must be hiding in there lol ive only got my gg passed away so wont mind if its her as she was lovely. Kx

Mar 9th, 2010, 11:46 AM	#1
lesleyann Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Peterborough, England Posts: 8,189	think my Lo has a new friend.. The spooky kind So quite offten toys that have to be touched, moved ect just start randomly going off in his play pen when his in his highchair or even when his in there but not playing with them or near to them. I "no" there is someone on our staircase my mum says when she was staying here someone was watching her, and when Lo is in the bath some times he will just stare at the top of the stairs and smile. All i wants to no now though is, is it a child of the house type or a family member playing. My family seem to pull friends in. More the boys than girls.

Status: Offline

Mar 9th, 2010, 13:38 PM	#2
Minstermind Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Ireland Posts: 2,376	Well, if he's smiling at them (and I do believe children have a good sense of these things), then I wouldn't be concerned and think it's a family member or whatnot.

Status: Offline

Mar 9th, 2010, 14:22 PM	#3
xashleyx Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: aberdeenshire Posts: 1,887	thats spooky, but i agree with minstermind, it dont seem to be bothering him, I would be freaked out tho lol im scared of everything! lol xx

Status: Offline

Mar 9th, 2010, 14:29 PM	#4
RainbowDrop_x Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 7,727	I must admit I would be a little bit scared.. But I agree children normally have a better sense of people/things than adults. I wouldn't worry too much aslong as you're LO isn't stressed or scared in anyway then I'm sure this new friend is fine

Status: Offline

Mar 9th, 2010, 14:44 PM	#5
lottebot Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Midlands Posts: 951	My little brother used to do that, and he still stands and talks to it.. we'll be saying Tyla what are you doing? and he said she wants my drink/toy/food. We don't know if its a imaginery friend though maybe you're LO is daydreaming?

Status: Offline

Mar 9th, 2010, 15:06 PM	#6
morri Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Hamburg(Germany) Posts: 6,135	Imaginary friends are lovely arent they ^^

Status: Offline

Mar 9th, 2010, 15:30 PM	#7
kaylynn040485 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Glasgow Posts: 4,875	Ive actually got a similar thing going on just now and i wish i was as laid back about it as u because its terrifying me, toys going off, jessica waving to the wall, her night show that phsically needs to be switched on going off through the night (oh gets sent in to switch it off) and i have a motion sensore air freshner in the hall which goes off right through the night so lots going on suddenly. tbh if your child isnt bothered and your not i wouldnt be concerned!

Status: Offline

Similar Threads
I think my LO may have found my ribs	Pregnancy - Third Trimester
My bump has a new friend	Pregnancy - Second Trimester
My lo has a chest infection and has been given a nebuliser :(	Baby Club
My LO has started to chew on me	Breastfeeding
I think my Oh has lost the plot	Long Term Trying To Conceive

User Name		Remember Me?
Password