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Apr 21st, 2008, 11:56 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  |  am i just being a b*****d to my girlfriend
im starting to think im being bit of an idiot towards my girlfriend because when i ask or want sex and she says no i get grumpy and really moody towards her and i don't speak to her what i think im trying to find out is are all guy's like that or is it just me. please tell me i want to know so i can change for her i don't want to be this way anymore please tell me.  | | | | Status: Offline
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Apr 21st, 2008, 12:01 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | sorry, thought i was in general. can someone move this lol  | | | | Status: Offline
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Apr 21st, 2008, 12:23 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | well just give her time shes pregnant and feeling very emotinal as her hormones are proberly goibg all over and she is trying to get used to her changing body. have you you considered she dosent feel comfterable in her body anymore bcos she thinks she is getting fat and unattrative. and womens sex drive do go down during pregnancy sometimes i no i really cant be bothered with it i just want to sleep and be sick lol. but my partner can be just like you sometimes so your not the only one
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Apr 21st, 2008, 12:28 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | you need to give her time -or spend more time in the bathroom;-)- hormones do horrid things to ladys! | | | | Status: Offline
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Apr 21st, 2008, 13:08 PM
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| sex is probably last thing on her mind by the sounds of it at the moment but I actually wasn't bothered either way at first and usually I like to think we are quite active but that is due to changes in your body and getting used to it like mumtobe said. You may see a change as hormones can go the other way so when they do have fun!! tell her that you love her body too and keep giving her compliments as it might be lack of confidence at the moment. |
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Apr 21st, 2008, 13:09 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I'm not going to lie. If your girlfriend is pregnant you need to just shut up and get over it.
So fed up of men who think being pregnant is so easy. Meh. |
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Apr 21st, 2008, 13:26 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | ^ here here
Sorry 
She may not feel like sex ...you'll have to put your dummy back in mate  You'll emotionally drain her to make her feel bad for that. Poor lass! |
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Apr 21st, 2008, 13:36 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I'm with wobbles and Toria. Not sure how pregnant your girlfriend is , but in those first few months when she may not look very pregnant her body is adjusting to lots of extra hormones. She may feel EXTREMELY tired, nauseous, cranky, worried and so on. Its not about meeting your needs, sorry, but be more supportive and relief yourself rather than pressuring her!! Do not wish to sound mean but sometimes men can be rather lacking just taking a step back from what they want. | | | | Status: Offline
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Apr 21st, 2008, 13:44 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | While I agree with what the girls said about you needing to get over it, I believe this was discussed elswhere a while back. The general consensus then was that men do get ratty when they dont have BD. Maybe a male version of PMT, who knows? So yeah, a little self releif may be in order for the time being
early pregnancy is rough for ladies. |
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Apr 21st, 2008, 13:45 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Give her time to adjust to being pregnant. The first trimester is always the hardest...morning sickness, tiredness, etc. Perhaps by second trimester her libido will increase. Maybe!
Pregnancy is not easy and men need to get over it. It's not like a woman can control what the heck is going on in their bodies.
She's carrying your child and you are 50% responsible for this pregnancy and what she is going through. Remember that! |
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