As nasty as it sounds, it hurts when I open my legs. It hurts when I move. It hurts when I do ANYTHING. Yet he STILL moans when I say no.

Men!

He hoovered yesterday though so I wont complain about him too much.#

xxx

What the hell? Your OH needs a slap! You're too soft.

As frustrating as it is for you, trust me, she probably feels the same. I know I did. I was so not up for sex in the first and most of the second trimester. There is just so much going on in your body, it is just not something that is a top priority. So my suggestion is when you are in the mood and she is not, just tell her you understand, and cuddle up to her, see if there is something you can do to make her feel better, whether that is running a bath for her or rubbing her feet. Intimacy is more than sex for women. I have very recently learned that men need sex to feel loved and women need to feel love to have sex. This was a major eye opener for me, and has made me look at my sexual relationship with my husband in a whole new light. So when there are times when I am not in the mood and he is, I make an effort to make love. And now he does the same thing for me when I am just not in the mood. Just be patient and supportive, and you will both be happier.

Time for you to get reaquainted with MR Right Hand matey and yes you are being a B@#%£*d in answer to your original question honestly MEN!!! if they had to carry babies themselves they would not ask such blatently stupid questions.

God that's exactly how I feel. Why do they ask blatently stupid questions? My OH drives me mad with his inability to grasp the smallest things about pregnancy and then moans that I don't explain them properly! ICK!

shes not pregnant... sorry if i gave the wrong impression there. we're ttc and she's in the tww just now, due to start in a couple of days. but shes not pregnant. i know she's not that happy just now and i do try and just accept her saying no. i suppose at least im not the only guy that does it. i've been trying to make her happy and give her a baby but it hasnt happened yet. maybe i will just start fixing myself again. i havent been since we've been trying. i just wanted some other opinions so thankyou for those.

lol

Oh, HON, just wait until she is pregnant!!!

I read over the first post and thought it was funny how we all asssumed 'girlfriend' was pregnant! & what followed ... well you poor f'er

I think it's because it's in pregnancy club.. lol

Or it was..