I'm sat here crying. I don't know if it's hormones or what but I got ready and my sister said "you look fat." Yes, thanks. That has made me feel just wonderful.

I feel so bad and I don't want to go. I know I have to but..

How rude, your not fat your pregnant!! Ignore her and have a lovely time, i hope the weather is better where you are.

Bit insensitive of your sister... I mean I know I teased Tasha a little but always with a grin on my face and my arms holding hers to her side!

I'll bet anything you like that you look great.. ignore her... my sister always tells me I look ugly, but then - she is blind!

Have fun

PS: Tasha would tell you the same but she's contending with feeding Anna right now...

I'm not going. I feel so bad about it but I actually feel depressed. I don't want to go and get all upset about being there and ruin it. I'm such an awful friend..

I think you should go. You're at the peak of your pregnancy - a moment most ladies would probably kill to be at right now, especially if they're at 12 weeks! You've got a beautiful bump to show off, a nice hair do and Rich to balance yourself off at...

Forgive me, but I think you're daft for not going. I know Tasha was keen to show off her bump everywhere!

Aww you should go, i bet you will have a great time and you can always come home early if you want to

that mean of your sister!! you should go hun im sure you ll be fine once you got there

I think you should go and enjoy yourself. You are not fat hun you are pregnant. Go to the wedding and show off your bump. Be Bump Proud!

You should go! Don't let one stupid remark from your sister (who I'll bet you anything is jellous!) ruin what will no doubt be a fun and very special day for you. It's a great opportunity to let your hair down, and dance away any bad feelings!

I promise you'll regret it if you don't go. I can't promise you'll have a great time (you probably will) but if you don't, you can always make your excuses and leave early - It's better than not going at all and your friend will forgive you going early: you're heavily pregnant just say you don't feel well!

But go anyway - who knows, you could end up having the time of your life - and realising how truly fabulous you look and that your sisters comment was just an outburst of childish, hurtful immaturity and jellousy (I have my own fair share of childish, immature and jellous sisters - well, just the one, but she's more than enough! lol)

I really hope you decide to go, hun, and that you have a great time seeing your friend off into married life.

Love, I have seen all your photos, if you are fat, then I am the cow of the year as you are no bigger than I am!!! We are pregnant, our bodies are beautiful and amazing, just look at what they have done is such a short time. Go and have fun, and show that beautiful bump off. Tell your sister to pisss off!!!