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maddiwatts19 · Mar 10th, 2008, 13:24 PM

Well as most of you know, i was taking this weekend out to just try and recouperate a bit. Well i was, untill the worst person in the whole world showed up!!!
We're staying at my OH's house this weekend, and his little brother and his girlfriend are having another baby!. I have no problem with teenage parents, just BAD teenage parents, and she really is!! Her little boy is 8 months old, and shes 6 months gone with their second, shes only 18. My soon to be BIL, didnt want kids yet, he wanted to get some money together and a house before he even thought about kids, but she stopped taking the pill and told his she still was. Then with the second baby, she made a hole in the condom. They really cant afford another baby, their struggeling with just the one. The little boy they've got at the moment doesnt even have a proper place to sleep because hes being pushed from a little hostel she lives in to her mums almost daily...So he sleeps in the buggy, or now on her bed. But as hes getting older, he can roll over now, and the other day rolled off the bed because she left him there on his own like that!!! She never puts any socks on him either!! So his little feet are dangeling out the bottom of the buggy!. So me and my OH brought his socks for christmas!! lol! Also, someone from my OH's family that can drive HAS to be at home during the day incase she needs to go anywhere!! Also, shes obsessed with copying mine and my OH's relationship!!. As soon as she found out we were engaged, she sat there on the sofa and asked when we were getting married, then turned to Jo (her bf)and said "Jo, ask me to marry you. NOW!" :O Everytime my OH gives me a kiss or cuddle, she'll go find JO and drag him so we can see them and hug or kiss him, and make a real show of it!! Shes such a bitch!
My rant about her is not just because i hate her! Although i do! But because she made this the worst weekend ever!!!. She came over, and we were all sitting in the front room, and i had to leave at one point because the sight of a pregnant woman still really gets to me. But we were just sat there talking, not about anything to do with her or babies, but she just started up "I love being pregnant". Everyone looked at her, and we just carried on talking, then my future MIL asked us something about the wedding, so she said the most hurtful thing ever! She said " you'll be this big soon maddi. Oh wait, i forgot, you lost another baby didnt you!. Oh well" Everyone just sat there, so shocked! Obviously she got asked to leave, and i just sat there crying!. I've always given her the benefit of the doubt, but now i cant help but think shes just a manipulative little bitch!! The weekend was so great up untill then! And that little cow just ruined it!!.
Thank you for reading this if you have! Sorry its so long, i just hate her, and wanted to get my anger out!!! She really hurt me and made me feel so low this weekend, just as i was starting to feel better!!!

nikky0907 · Mar 10th, 2008, 13:37 PM

The thing she said to you is probably the most insensitive,hurtful thing she could say.How can she possibly parent a child when she is so immature and cruel.
It's a sad thing when women like that have babies while women like you,and some other on this forum,who would be amazing mothers,get screwed by the destiny...
Hold on there...

maddiwatts19 · Mar 10th, 2008, 13:42 PM

Thank you.
xxxxx

Jules · Mar 10th, 2008, 13:51 PM

I wouldn't give her the time of day ever again. She sounds an idiot and wants reporting for not looking after her child properly.

Hope you feel better soon x

Vickie · Mar 10th, 2008, 13:54 PM

That was an extremely cruel and insensitive thing for her to say to you

maddiwatts19 · Mar 10th, 2008, 13:55 PM

Thank you!
She is an idiot! And i feel stupid for giving her the benefit of the doubt!
I know! But luckily, the father is FANTASTIC! I think she just wanted the baby as a fashion accessory!!
x

vickilouise · Mar 10th, 2008, 13:59 PM

shit the bed mummy watts thats awful, i wouldnt of contained myself, spiteful little bitch.

AquaDementia · Mar 10th, 2008, 14:02 PM

Wow, what an ignorant little bitch.
I am sorry she got to you, I can imagine how hurtful that was.

ladymilly · Mar 10th, 2008, 14:06 PM

oh she is awful!! i hate her too!!!!! you poor pet.

if i were you i wouldn't bother with her again. she sounds sooo horrible

Mervs Mum · Mar 10th, 2008, 14:34 PM

Stupid immature little bitch. I already knew you were a good person but now I'm sure because if it had been me in that situation, I'd have put her on her arse - not a good move obv.
She sounds like a child and a stupid annoying one at that.

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