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Mar 6th, 2008, 14:46 PM
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Hey everyone!.
I really wasnt sure where to put this, as theres people in every forum i wanted to thank...
First of all, i just want to say a HUGE thank you to all of you for your love, support and prayers. Knowing you guys are there has actually been a big help! You girls really are amazing, and i'm so glad your all there!!.
I'm feeling slightly better this morning. I cried all night and barely got any sleep. But once i got up, got dressed i realised that there is nothing i can do, but that it is just time to try and move on.
I've thrown myself into my uni work, to try and distract myself. It sounds horrible, but i feel so jealouse of my OH going to work. We're going to his this weekend, but for now i'm staying in my little uni flat. Trying my hardest to cope.
My mum and dad came down this morning, and it was great to see them!!. My dad's a vicar/priest so somehow he managed to find the words to comfort me. We also agreed that on September 16th (my due date) we're going to have a little service at home to celebrate how much we loved bubbie, and to remember our loss. We're going to have a small plaque made up for both our angels, and we're going to make a small space in mum and dads garden with our favourite flowers and out the plaque there. So we have somewhere to remember our babies.
I am trying my hardest to cope, but i find myself everynow and then, rubbing my belly or talking to bubbie like i used to do. Its just going to take time to get used to it all, and trying to make sense of it all. My mum gave me a stern talking to (like mums do!!), and made me realise i was being so stupid for blaming myself. Its just a horrible thing that happened.
But no matter what, i still feel numb and like my whole world has collapsed...
If your still reading this, thank you for taking the time...
Hope your all ok.
And HUGE hugs to everyone else who has suffered a loss lately. Your all in my thoughts.
Thank you again to everyone for their support. Your all fantastic.
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Mar 6th, 2008, 14:52 PM
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Mar 6th, 2008, 14:57 PM
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Mar 6th, 2008, 15:03 PM
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It is a terrible thing that happened,but you musn't blame yourself!
It's a sweet thing your parents are doing for your little angels...I'm sure you'll need more time to cope with this,but stay strong!You'll have your little angel that won't need a plaque someday and these two will be watching you from heaven...xxx |
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Mar 6th, 2008, 15:21 PM
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Mar 6th, 2008, 15:23 PM
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Mar 6th, 2008, 15:31 PM
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Mar 6th, 2008, 15:44 PM
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