Im Leaving...

Tracie87 · Sep 26th, 2009, 04:42 AM

Jusst no that i love you all but i cant stay here any longer i cant stand and wait and watch everyone having children and talking babies and how much they need and want them...

The PCT turned me and my hubsnad down this morning, told us even tho were a special case they cannot grant me funding yet. Told me to come back in 14 months.. who nos i may come back with a miracle one day, doubt that tho

i Cant stay here.. just no i love you all and i wish you all the best!

x

lauren-kate · Sep 26th, 2009, 04:45 AM

Good luck in your journey

x-amy-x · Sep 26th, 2009, 04:50 AM

Aw tracie

Talk to me hun x

luvbunsazzle · Sep 26th, 2009, 04:51 AM

I hope and pray your miracle comes soon, good luck in your journey hun. xx

tinkabells · Sep 26th, 2009, 04:51 AM

Sorry to hear your leaving, but hope you come back soon xxx

Jane1972 · Sep 26th, 2009, 04:54 AM

Tracie Dont know what to say, I haven't been a member for very long but I do know that you are always there giving people support & hopefully we can give you support. Think your PCT is pants.
Maybe just have a holiday away from the site?

Tezzy · Sep 26th, 2009, 04:59 AM

aw tracie im so heartbroken for you

i hope you get your miricle BFP soon x

FEDup1981 · Sep 26th, 2009, 04:59 AM

Awww hun. Appeal, appeal, appeal. They turn everybody down just to save money. (its the same with weight loss surgery, if you dont automatically fit the criteria, they turn u down, but on appeal most get it).

You have nothing to lose. Set your sights on 14 months time, then if it comes back earlier its a bonus.
I know i have jack, so my comparision is nothing like urs, but i do feel the pain, at having my TTC date pushed back all the time.
Its hard to see people have babies. Most days i cant bring myself to go into BFP announcements or birth stories. Only if theres a particular person i know, or someone who has been trying a really long time.
Your gonna start ur new job soon, and you could set up a lil fund for ur new baby, something to work on and aim for.

But dont leave BnB, at least not for long (no more than a day!) it wouldnt be the same without you! xxxx

xxxx

Tracie87 · Sep 26th, 2009, 05:03 AM

im not allowed to appeal.. that was my appeal.. and they said no. So i cant stay. its been 3 years of heartache

**polo_princess** · Sep 26th, 2009, 05:07 AM

Oh Tracie

Dont make any rash decisions, i know your hurting at the moment and its hard to be here given the circumstance but you have lots of friends and a great support network here, dont leave full stop, maybe just a little break until things have settled down a bit?

Sep 26th, 2009, 04:42 AM	#1
Tracie87 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2008 Location: In a pineapple Posts: 10,064	Im Leaving... Jusst no that i love you all but i cant stay here any longer i cant stand and wait and watch everyone having children and talking babies and how much they need and want them... The PCT turned me and my hubsnad down this morning, told us even tho were a special case they cannot grant me funding yet. Told me to come back in 14 months.. who nos i may come back with a miracle one day, doubt that tho i Cant stay here.. just no i love you all and i wish you all the best! x

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Sep 26th, 2009, 04:45 AM	#2
lauren-kate Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: UK Posts: 2,757	Good luck in your journey

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Sep 26th, 2009, 04:50 AM	#3
x-amy-x Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Teesside, UK Posts: 13,809	Aw tracie Talk to me hun x

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Sep 26th, 2009, 04:51 AM	#4
luvbunsazzle Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Kettering - Northants Posts: 4,507	I hope and pray your miracle comes soon, good luck in your journey hun. xx
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Sep 26th, 2009, 04:51 AM	#5
tinkabells Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 4,088	Sorry to hear your leaving, but hope you come back soon xxx

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Sep 26th, 2009, 04:54 AM	#6
Jane1972 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Hampshire Posts: 676	Tracie Dont know what to say, I haven't been a member for very long but I do know that you are always there giving people support & hopefully we can give you support. Think your PCT is pants. Maybe just have a holiday away from the site?

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Sep 26th, 2009, 04:59 AM	#7
Tezzy Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: North Wales Posts: 11,131	aw tracie im so heartbroken for you i hope you get your miricle BFP soon x

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Sep 26th, 2009, 04:59 AM	#8
FEDup1981 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: UK Posts: 11,732	Awww hun. Appeal, appeal, appeal. They turn everybody down just to save money. (its the same with weight loss surgery, if you dont automatically fit the criteria, they turn u down, but on appeal most get it). You have nothing to lose. Set your sights on 14 months time, then if it comes back earlier its a bonus. I know i have jack, so my comparision is nothing like urs, but i do feel the pain, at having my TTC date pushed back all the time. Its hard to see people have babies. Most days i cant bring myself to go into BFP announcements or birth stories. Only if theres a particular person i know, or someone who has been trying a really long time. Your gonna start ur new job soon, and you could set up a lil fund for ur new baby, something to work on and aim for. But dont leave BnB, at least not for long (no more than a day!) it wouldnt be the same without you! xxxx xxxx

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Sep 26th, 2009, 05:03 AM	#9
Tracie87 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2008 Location: In a pineapple Posts: 10,064	im not allowed to appeal.. that was my appeal.. and they said no. So i cant stay. its been 3 years of heartache

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Sep 26th, 2009, 05:07 AM	#10
polo_princess Mum (Mom) BabyandBump Team Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Hertfordshire Posts: 45,510	Oh Tracie Dont make any rash decisions, i know your hurting at the moment and its hard to be here given the circumstance but you have lots of friends and a great support network here, dont leave full stop, maybe just a little break until things have settled down a bit?

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