tb42

There's not much about my pregnancy, but i'm pregnant and i need support especially from my closest person,my husband. Now i work at home a lot, i move the laptop from the office so i can answer emails from customers, do house work and take care of 2 puppies. Every day he comes back from work he would go straight to the bedroom watching TV and come out when he needs something and then had dinner ,back to TV and goes to sleep before me.i talked to him yesterday that he's spending time with TV more than with me and i need him to help with washing up and feed the dogs sometimes. TOday it's back to normal again. i get so upset because i told him we can do something else like go to the sunday market or something but he;s not interested. i don't know how to get him to realize i need his help and he's going to responsible a child, but he;s so attached to TV and wouldn't want to do anything else.

sometimes when i do some work in the kitchen i would call him 3-4 times very loudly to get him to help me but every time he doesn't hear me until i finished .i just told him i'm going home to see my mom. DO i have to tell him everything and every time i want him to help me with some house work. ( i feel like crying inside right now)

Sorry i have to bring it up here. i just thought more people can give me advise.

**angel**

tb42

no i don't have other children. this is my first. I told him this morning i was not happy about last night he didn't help me with the work, and he asked me what work, so i said washing up, clean outside, wash the clothes, locked the gate,. i went to bed at almost midnight and didn't sleep well. He said he will try to help more today. Well we'll see

Iwantone!!!

aawww i felt that hard at first when i got with my oh so i easy it in gently i say could u go xyz for me when u get a mo and ithey can start tea i would not do the job i asked oh to do no matter how much it bugged me that it was not done i.e straight away he would then ask me to do something for him i.e make a cup of tea i would say yeah ill stick the kettle on so after ur have done xyz it will be ready it made him move and do it and know he does it near enought right away now little by little now we have a rule who ever cooks the other one tidys up u will fine ur own way hunni u need to stick to ur guns and dont bk down or do what u have have asked oh to do good luck xx