Hi all i am a single mum again as from yesterday through my own choice i split from my bf who was abusive, controlling and aggressive towards me and my son. Yesteray i felt stong and empowered and today i feel lonely and upset. I really can't believe i got my self into this mess again. My first baby daddy left me at 8weeks pg and never wanted anything to do with us. I have now a 9 month old with my now ex bf i hate being a single mum! But putting up being scared is just as bad. i am now on my own with two kids at 22 my youngest is also mixed race. B4 i fell pg my ex wasn't abusive but so nice! I never want a man again i dont think i will ever find someone who will love and care for me and not want to hurt me so i better just stear clear all together. im very upset and worried about the future.

Aww hun its understandable to feel the way you do, but if your parnter was abusive towards you and your son then you have definitely done the right thing in leaving him.
Cant imagine how you must be feeling right now, but dont say you wont find someone because you will hun, one day mr right will walk into your life, maybe when you are least expecting it, and treat you with the love and respect you deserve
Dont really know what to say hun but stay strong, im sending you a big hug

Steph xx

hi thanks isn't that funny my names stephanie too. x

we're not all bastads but well done for putting you and your kids first and good luck moving on. your kids should be proud to have such a strong caring mum

I think theres a few stephanies on here ! such a great name !! :wink:

I love it now but used to hate it at school ste-fanny. step on me. i feel better at least chance to chat to someone.

haha yea i know what you mean!

What kind of wedding you going for?

Have PMed you hun, didnt want to take over your thread!
xx