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Dec 26th, 2007, 08:57 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | feeling down im feeling a little down knowing i cant have any more babies coz they sterilised me same time i had aynjel i know was my choice to agree but i agreed for health reasons not coz i dont want anymore but because they dont like to do too many sections is this normal to feel this way even tho was my decision to agree? |
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Dec 26th, 2007, 09:18 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I've never gone through it hun
Just wanted to offer a  |
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Dec 26th, 2007, 11:48 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I think it is understandable. When i had c-section number 3 they asked if i wanted to be sterilised at the same time . I declined as like you did not know if i would regret it later, too final for me. Don't be too hard on yourself | | | | Status: Offline
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Dec 26th, 2007, 15:21 PM
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Originally Posted by coccyx I think it is understandable. When i had c-section number 3 they asked if i wanted to be sterilised at the same time . I declined as like you did not know if i would regret it later, too final for me. Don't be too hard on yourself | they asked me after number 3 too i declined then but felt i had to after the 4th wasnt sure how many they would actually do ive got 4 beautiful kids some ppl dont get the chance to have 1 so yes im very grateful i just cant help feeling a lil bit down though |
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Dec 26th, 2007, 16:01 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | aawww huni its must be hard for u sending u loads of hugsxxxxxxxx |
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Dec 26th, 2007, 17:32 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | it must be hard, i dont know what it's like but i can give hugs pretty well
((((((((((((((((((((MEGA hugs for you)))))))))))))))))))))
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Dec 27th, 2007, 11:22 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | thx girls |
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Dec 27th, 2007, 11:33 AM
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| Cant offer any advice but wanted to give you a hug
Sorry your feeling so down
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Dec 27th, 2007, 11:54 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | aww sorry your feeling down ... try to think of the positives ... like you said you already have 4 beautiful children  |
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Dec 27th, 2007, 18:34 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I can imagine it's prefectly normal to feel like that, it is a very scary thing to go through.
Ive never been through it myself, but big hugs for you too. I hope you start to feel a little bit better soon!
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