Ok, It's my 21st in less than 2 months. I haven't really got anything planned!

My cousin has told me that if I don't have a big party, I'll regret it, but I don't like having all the attention on me! I'd rather just blend in, which you can't at a big party for you, really!

So I really don't know what to do. Here's a few options, but I'm open to any suggestions!

Bournemouth for the weekend:
My football team play in Bournemouth on my actual birthday, & the people I go with are organising a weekend thing. So going down on Friday, night out, game on Saturday, night out, & travelling home on Sunday. OH is going, but I'm not sure about being away from my family, or my best friends! Plus, I know if we lose I'll be in a really bad mood! But still a possibility

"Party in the Park":
It's bank holiday weekend, & it's my town's carnival. So they have a procession with floats and things, & then a little fun fair in the park up my road in the day, & in the evening a concert with Diana & Eoghan from the X-Factor last year. It's free as well. So, could go there with my best friends, & then back to somewhere for a BBQ!

Big Party:
A big party the weekend after my birthday, but I'm not sure where yet. I think it's a bit too late to book anywhere decent, because surely they will already be booked up! I've left it a bit late, but I could have a bit of a party in the pub I worked at, with family, friends etc! They have already told me they will be happy to that for me! But it's finding a time to suit everyone!

So like I said, I'm VERY open to suggestions..! x

Well I spent my 21st birthday in the hospital waiting to get induced so I'm making up for it for my 22nd!!

My best friend had a vegas themed party for her 21st and it was really awesome. We all played poker and dressed up & drank super fancy drinks and ended up going to a bar downtown. The whole place was decorated with cards and stuff, it was cool.

You could always stick with the staple of fancy dress? I know quite a lot of people who did this for their 21st (I just went for a meal with my friends, then into town to a club... Bit tame, really!)

Paintballing?
Go Karting?
Murder Mystery Weekend (I want to do this for my birthday!)
Day Trip - Beach, Countryside etc

I think if it was me, I'd go for football AND a big party, if you can afford both, that is!

Umm i dont know hunny??? But dont have a big party if u would be able to enjoy urself.

it my 21st this year too but i dont have a clue what im gunna do!!

When's your 21st hun? I thought I'd be really excited about mine, but I'm seriously not! I just don't want to get any older. 20 is fine for me!

I'm seriously considering the carnival with my best friends. That way, I won't be doing something I wouldn't normally do, & I'd feel fine about it all..Maybe have a takeaway & a few films at mine after! x

Oh, I found this website when I was looking for some ideas for my birthday! I really want to do something a bit different for my birthday (I'll be 22 in August), so am trawling for ideas! To be honest, all I did for my last 5 birthdays was go out to a club, and have a bit too much to drink, so I'll have to do something different this year!

http://www.your21st.co.uk/

Ooh thanks for that website, I'll have a look at that now! x