i just read all the messages and i wanted to tell you in my culture some people have 10 kids!! children are considered a blessing and most people dont even find out what they are having. i dont think people mean much harm when they ask what ure having but some ppl are just very rude.
there is a famous story about a grandmother who told her son that maybe 5 kids was enough, she kept going on and on at him .so one day he took all the kids over to grandmas, lined them all up and said: okay mom here they are: so which one should we not have had?!
that kept grandma quiet!
