toriaaaaTRASH

I've been stressing out so much lately as most of you know. With pains, OH troubles and just feeling like nobody cares. I feel O.K.-ish now. I know you're all probably fed up with my moaning but I do appreciate having you guys to talk to. I would've probably gone insane without you. I just want baby to be O.K. and I think trying to hard is making everything worse. I'm so tired, so sick, so emotional all the time. I don't know if I need to talk to someone professionally or something but I don't feel like I'm coping too well with all my hormones and stuff right now. I wish I felt normal again. I know I'll be O.K. once I see baby again but the wait untill then is going to be so, so hard! I'm trying to relax, I really am. I finally managed to keep food down and 10pm tonight. I hope I don't feel ill when I wake up tomorrow. I don't think I could take another day of this. Basically, thank you for being there. Sometimes I find it strange that people that hardly know me seem to care more than everyone around me. It's nice though. Thank you

Vickie

awww I hope you start feeling better soon. I'm sure the hormones aren't helping you any but everyone in your life could be more supportive and understand that, especially your OH. I guess guys just really don't get how hard this pregnancy stuff really is for women do they?

toriaaaaTRASH

No they don't. I was like, you're having the next one! He was like "cool." I flipped! I really felt like he didn't understand how bad or worried I feel. I hate it. I think he's finally realising now I'm so bad I can't keep anything down

Vickie

I can kind of understand where you are coming from (even though I'm not as sick as you). I told my DH that he wasn't the one who had to push the baby out and he promptly told me that he wasn't able to, boy oh boy did he get into trouble for that one

horrorheart13

I can definately relate to the OH problems and the constant worry. I have been SO SICK as well. Everytime I try to eat something or even smell something that I didn't think my body would disagree with, I gag and then usually have to run to the bathroom. I really hope you feel better.

FJL

Sorry to hear you're having a tough time right now hun.

I hope your sickness goes away and you start feeling bette soon. Have you sat OH down and told him exactly how you feel and how this is all affecting you?

I doubt anyone on here would ever think you were moaning hun, everyone is supportive and here for you

Iwantone!!!

aawww hunni were here for u i do hope u feel better soon xxxx

toriaaaaTRASH

I've tried to talk to him but it just seems every time we get past one issue there's another one. I can't help but feel all the arguing is my fault. I'm not as patient as I was before. He said pregnancy has bought out the worst in me

FJL

TT - it really sounds as though he has no idea what a woman goes through in pregnancy include hormonal changes! To say it has brought out the worst in you is very unkind in my eyes.

How about writing him a letter so that you can say everything you want without being interupted by something he might say? That way he will know exactly how you feel?