Bullied at work?

broody21 · Mar 1st, 2009, 18:25 PM

Anyone else being bullied at work?

I am. Oh yay! I'm 22 next week and i'm being belittled by a 36 year old man.

He said to me today and has done before "I had the urge to punch you in the face then, but I wouldn't".

He's always making remarks to put me down. I work at subway and I'm applying to do a PGCE in RE this Septemer. So of course, he's making me feel thick.

grrrr.

I have told the team leader, and she is on my side. She has told me to tell her when he's like this, and if she's there she'll get the evidence. And when I'm ready to go to the manager. There's no point doing anything major now, he'll deny it all and say he's joking etc. Then he'll get worse with me.

nightkd · Mar 1st, 2009, 18:44 PM

What a prick

xxx

ricschick · Mar 2nd, 2009, 06:17 AM

tell him he is a wanker! and then just ignore him and hopefully he'l go away

Kimboowee · Mar 2nd, 2009, 06:19 AM

I would say something back to him, twat!!

princess_bump · Mar 2nd, 2009, 06:23 AM

how bloody horrible, i experienced something like this quite a few years ago now by my head of department, tbh it knocked my confidence and i left pretty quickly when i found a real lack of support

x

**Wobbles** · Mar 2nd, 2009, 07:34 AM

You manager has to deal with this hun even if he says 'I am only joking' actually its not funny even if he was and he needs put in his place joke excuse or not! Failing that you could always whisper something back at him if he'd be shocked that 'you' would say something like that it puts people off guard! "I'd like to swing a bat across your face but hey I wouldn't simply because your a waste of space" walk away. Asshole!

special_kala · Mar 2nd, 2009, 08:10 AM

Keep a diary of all his little "jokes" that you dont like and show your manager

broody21 · Mar 2nd, 2009, 09:51 AM

Thanks ladies

I will definiely keep a diary!

leeanne · Mar 2nd, 2009, 10:00 AM

What a mean jerk! I agree about the diary and I like Wobbles' idea. LOL

ablaze · Mar 2nd, 2009, 10:13 AM

tosser!!! hate people liek that!! joke my ass!!! get a log recorded an get his ass booted out the place!! chances are if hes doing it to you, hes doing it to more!

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broody21 Waiting To Try (WTT) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: North Wales Posts: 1,886	Bullied at work? Anyone else being bullied at work? I am. Oh yay! I'm 22 next week and i'm being belittled by a 36 year old man. He said to me today and has done before "I had the urge to punch you in the face then, but I wouldn't". He's always making remarks to put me down. I work at subway and I'm applying to do a PGCE in RE this Septemer. So of course, he's making me feel thick. grrrr. I have told the team leader, and she is on my side. She has told me to tell her when he's like this, and if she's there she'll get the evidence. And when I'm ready to go to the manager. There's no point doing anything major now, he'll deny it all and say he's joking etc. Then he'll get worse with me.

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nightkd Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: British Expat in USA Posts: 8,374	What a prick xxx

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Mar 2nd, 2009, 06:17 AM	#3
ricschick Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Wonderland Posts: 6,003	tell him he is a wanker! and then just ignore him and hopefully he'l go away

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Kimboowee Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Derbyshire Posts: 9,443	I would say something back to him, twat!!

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princess_bump Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: England Posts: 31,450	how bloody horrible, i experienced something like this quite a few years ago now by my head of department, tbh it knocked my confidence and i left pretty quickly when i found a real lack of support x

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Wobbles Mum (Mom) Administrator Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Chester Gal By Heart Posts: 50,081	You manager has to deal with this hun even if he says 'I am only joking' actually its not funny even if he was and he needs put in his place joke excuse or not! Failing that you could always whisper something back at him if he'd be shocked that 'you' would say something like that it puts people off guard! "I'd like to swing a bat across your face but hey I wouldn't simply because your a waste of space" walk away. Asshole!
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special_kala Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: West sussex, england Posts: 16,449	Keep a diary of all his little "jokes" that you dont like and show your manager

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ablaze Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 15,160	tosser!!! hate people liek that!! joke my ass!!! get a log recorded an get his ass booted out the place!! chances are if hes doing it to you, hes doing it to more!

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